"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lasik

UltimateDJuan

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Is it true that at some point of the Lasik process they actually cut your cornea and flop it over?

This is one of my main inhibitions towards getting lasik done. I really don't like the idea of having a slice of my cornea cut and flopped over with some tweezers!

Also, would the cornea ever truly heal, or will it always be a flap that can get disloged if you rub your eyes?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Celadus

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Yeah, with lasik they cut your cornea and make a flap with it. If you have a good doctor and you are a good candidate it should heal perfectly fine but some people od have problems.

I've been researching it for a few years and I suggest going to several really, really good doctors before you make a decision. I'm driving to beverly hills for a consultation. Look into PRK or Lasek. They don't have a flap, are more suitable for certain types of people (big pupil, thin cornea) and they usually have less after surgery side effects. It takes a week or two to recover, sometimes you are still improving a couple months after.

Do a lot of research. A lot of people think its great but a few people had a lot of trouble. Keep in mind the people with the bad problems are going to be more vocal on the net than people who have the surgery and never think about it again.
 

wayword

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UltimateDJuan said:
Also, would the cornea ever truly heal, or will it always be a flap that can get disloged if you rub your eyes?
Supposedly, the only part that really heals is the rim around the cut, but the flap can still be flopped open like even like 7 years later by eye docs to make repairs.

So, yes there are some risks with this procedure:

Lasik Disaster
Surgical Eyes

However, I think most are pretty satisfied with it.
 

Celadus

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Recovery period is longer and rougher. You are pretty much knocked out in bed for a few days.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Throttle

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I've had friends & family end up at the Johns Hopkins eye clinic from time to time, where they apparently do nothing but bad-mouth laser surgery for eyes and trade horror stories (you really don't want to know). Of course, being one of the best eye clinics around, they probably see the worst cases (selection bias)...
 
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