Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
MojoPUA said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
God_of_getting_layed said:The sucky part about this is that these guys really arent PUAs.
MOst of these guys are frauds. David D aint a PUA, ROss Jeffires aint a PUA, gunwitch aint a PUA, I could go on. Id be embarrassed If I got the kind of women these guys actually get. Most these guys are just freaks trying to sell their PUA theories.
So No Deus, THese guys are NOT evidence against a looks matter theory. Nice try though.
Oh god, when will the looks dont matterists provide some credible evidence? when hell freezes over maybe?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How the f.uck would you know that? Plz don't post yourown beliefs as facts.God_of_getting_layed said:The sucky part about this is that these guys really arent PUAs.
MOst of these guys are frauds. David D aint a PUA, ROss Jeffires aint a PUA, gunwitch aint a PUA,
Why would I want to put a guy on a pedestal just because he's good with women?MojoPUA said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
never said they dont get laid. Youre putting words in my mouth. I said theyre not PUAs. YOu can get layed and NOT be a PUA, ie have sex with women who are NOT good looking.GoSens said:To God_of_getting_layed, the evidence is in those Pua pics (they're all hardly good looking). If you don't want to believe these guys get laid, then thats your problem.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.