"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lap dance, uh oh!

DiSt0rTi0n_07

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Ok, straight to the point... I owe a hottie a lapdance... can any of the dancers out there give me a couple pointers? It is safe to say I dont have a thong to show off (thank god) or long blonde hair to wave around. If I dont get any advice, the only thing I will be able to rely on is the power of 151, which is not a very comforting thought. haha obviously its just for fun, but if I could get some pointers, things would go alot better.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJF or John

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Lol, you owe her a lapdance.

Well, if you insist.....

You must have a high amount of sexual vibe my friend. And just turn on the music, get in your own little sexual world...and seduce this chick through the sexual energy flowing through your body.

You get good at it, you could have developed you a nice part time job. :)
 

Lust

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DiSt0rTi0n_07 said:
Ok, straight to the point... I owe a hottie a lapdance... can any of the dancers out there give me a couple pointers? It is safe to say I dont have a thong to show off (thank god) or long blonde hair to wave around. If I dont get any advice, the only thing I will be able to rely on is the power of 151, which is not a very comforting thought. haha obviously its just for fun, but if I could get some pointers, things would go alot better.
If you are doing it for fun, rather than actually "owing" her something...

Get dressed up, are you buff? If you are, dress up in a fireman's costume, when you are dancing put the hard hat on her, things like that, things she doesn't expect and separates you from other guys.

Make sure you MAKE HER WORK FOR IT.

Understand? Tease her.
 

Cremasta

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Just go watch "The Full Monty" a few times or something.

Make sure you have a pull beforehand, it would probably ruin the mood if you blew all over her face... but then again she might want that :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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spider_007

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Slowly while moving to music, mount her, slowly pull your shirt off......bring your chest close to her face.....Look her in the eyes, get close to her as if your going to kiss her on the cheek, with your other hand grab her neck on the other side of her head, and slowly breath on her neck just under her ear and wisper; "mmmmmm".....gently grab her by the hair and pull it back, while your moving down the collar bone......

use your imagination.....TEASE HER

Luke!! said:
You owe her sh*t son. Dont give her a lapdance, have sex or something more meaningful to you.
oh yea, that sure makes you a man.:rolleyes:
women are to be played with and enjoyed.
 

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I wouldnt try to get "serious about" it. Just have fun with it. Ive done it tons of times. Dont try to turn her on, just make her laugh. give a bunch of cheesy seductive looks, grind your pelvis in her boobs, sit in her lap and pretend you're a chippendale. Just a couple nights ago, I gave an hb bartender a really cheesy beergut striptease (on the bar, mind you!), and she ended up stuffing dollars down my pants and making out with me. There was NOTHING sexy about it either, I was just having fun.

Here's an idea: have a bottle of whipped cream handy, and make her lick it off your nipples, then do it back to her. (Ive also done this with a different bartender at this place) Just have fun, you cant go wrong.
 
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