"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lap dance, uh oh!

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DiSt0rTi0n_07

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Ok, straight to the point... I owe a hottie a lapdance... can any of the dancers out there give me a couple pointers? It is safe to say I dont have a thong to show off (thank god) or long blonde hair to wave around. If I dont get any advice, the only thing I will be able to rely on is the power of 151, which is not a very comforting thought. haha obviously its just for fun, but if I could get some pointers, things would go alot better.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lol, you owe her a lapdance.

Well, if you insist.....

You must have a high amount of sexual vibe my friend. And just turn on the music, get in your own little sexual world...and seduce this chick through the sexual energy flowing through your body.

You get good at it, you could have developed you a nice part time job. :)
 
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DiSt0rTi0n_07 said:
Ok, straight to the point... I owe a hottie a lapdance... can any of the dancers out there give me a couple pointers? It is safe to say I dont have a thong to show off (thank god) or long blonde hair to wave around. If I dont get any advice, the only thing I will be able to rely on is the power of 151, which is not a very comforting thought. haha obviously its just for fun, but if I could get some pointers, things would go alot better.
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If you are doing it for fun, rather than actually "owing" her something...

Get dressed up, are you buff? If you are, dress up in a fireman's costume, when you are dancing put the hard hat on her, things like that, things she doesn't expect and separates you from other guys.

Make sure you MAKE HER WORK FOR IT.

Understand? Tease her.
 
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Just go watch "The Full Monty" a few times or something.

Make sure you have a pull beforehand, it would probably ruin the mood if you blew all over her face... but then again she might want that :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Slowly while moving to music, mount her, slowly pull your shirt off......bring your chest close to her face.....Look her in the eyes, get close to her as if your going to kiss her on the cheek, with your other hand grab her neck on the other side of her head, and slowly breath on her neck just under her ear and wisper; "mmmmmm".....gently grab her by the hair and pull it back, while your moving down the collar bone......

use your imagination.....TEASE HER

Luke!! said:
You owe her sh*t son. Dont give her a lapdance, have sex or something more meaningful to you.
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oh yea, that sure makes you a man.:rolleyes:
women are to be played with and enjoyed.
 
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I wouldnt try to get "serious about" it. Just have fun with it. Ive done it tons of times. Dont try to turn her on, just make her laugh. give a bunch of cheesy seductive looks, grind your pelvis in her boobs, sit in her lap and pretend you're a chippendale. Just a couple nights ago, I gave an hb bartender a really cheesy beergut striptease (on the bar, mind you!), and she ended up stuffing dollars down my pants and making out with me. There was NOTHING sexy about it either, I was just having fun.

Here's an idea: have a bottle of whipped cream handy, and make her lick it off your nipples, then do it back to her. (Ive also done this with a different bartender at this place) Just have fun, you cant go wrong.
 
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