"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Language learning will never become obsolete

Deep Dish

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I once found a comment somewhere on the Internet from 20 years ago where someone said that in 20 years that learning a foreign language would be obsolete because people would have an app to instantly translate. They were correct about apps, but not about obsolescence. Using an app on your phone to translate is okay in a pinch, but that's two people awkwardly fiddling around with their phones and not a fluid conversation, plus the inaccuracies of nuanced translations. By choosing technology, you also miss out on the cognitive health and social cultural life benefits of bilingualism, and the satisfaction of accomplishing a learning challenge along a joyous journey.

Elon Musk takes things up a magnitude of delusional stupidity by suggesting his neuralink brain implants will make spoken language obsolete, because telepathic communication would be faster and more precise, with speaking reserved only for sentimental.reasons. While his brain implants are currently focused on helping people with brain injuries, he has said that later iterations could in principle be used by.everyone.

To quote: "I think you would, in principle, you would be able to communicate very quickly and with far more precision… language. I’m not sure what would happen to language but in a situation like this though, it’d be kind of like The Matrix. You want to speak a different language, no problem, just download the program."

Would you put an implant into your brain if you're healthy? Yeah, no, I didn't think so.

Plus, from a biological perspective,.science doesn't know nearly enough about the brain to interface with it. AI can infer your inner monologue of thoughts from MRI brain scans, but that is distant from interfering with your neurons and changing your language.

A science study found the speed of communication of every language is the same at a bitrate of 39 bits per second, regardless of the spoken speed and complexity of the language, with simpler languages being spoken slower, and there is no substantive need to speed up the bitrate.

Language isn't a "problem" to be solved with technology.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The money in teaching it english here in the states is amazing so i hope not.
 

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What's cool is they now have apps where both people can talk and if they both have apps they can set it up so it automatically translates what the person is saying to their language.

So I could speak English and another person could speak French and we can carry on a conversation and it will translate on the fly...this can work even with phone conversations also.
 
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