“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Lars147

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Hey guys, recently I've met a group of three Chinese girls with my friends. After about four outings with all six of us, I got the impression that one of the girls is interested in me (lot's of eye contact, always sitting next to me, always offering me to try her drink, the other girls making jokes about the two of us being together). So, one day I ask her out to see a school performance that most of the highschool has been talking about during the week. Only thing was that she didn't understand my English and didn't figure out that it was a date, and invited her friends and my friends along as well. 'Cause the thing is, she has the worst English speaking skills of the three, and the other two have to basically translate what I say whenever I talk to her. So, I'm wondering how I can get with a girl that can hardly understand me? Anyone have any experience with something like this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Pozitron

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Uncommon problem.
Try action. They all understand that language. :))
 

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So I've been living in China for 2 years now. So some advice, her reading skills and writing are probably 10x better than her speaking skills.
So get that number and text her. You'll find she can be much more responsive through this, and Chinese girls are known for being shy so it'd be easier for her to talk through messages.

If you really want to impress her, learn about China, the culture, ask her where she's from and research that place. In China, every province is different, each province speaks different, has different food, etc.

And download an instant messenger program called "QQ" you can find it on im.qq.com. Nearly 90% of Chinese people use QQ. It's like China's facebook. Then one day say, hey do you have QQ? Can I get your QQ number? She'll be so surprised. Then you two can chat on that outside of class.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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