"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Landon from Real World, what the hell?

JaguarMike

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The of Meeting a "Celebrity"

Before the school year ended I visited my good friend at WVU. Went to an awesome club called Elements, knew real world people were there, didn't really care. After my first two vodka redbulls I had to use the restroom, and noticed a huge crowd in there with Landon in the middle. It was a weird sight, all these dudes were totally acting like he was some chick they had to bang, except he was a celebrity and they were trying to boost their self worth by association. I go back to the bar, do shots with my friend and 2 girls, go back to the bathroom, go to the bar and then Landon comes to the bar. A HB10 bartending (she was unreal hot, 5"10, brunette, tan, perfect face, perfect tits, stomach, everything) walks right up to him ignoring all other orders, and starts doing whip cream shots with Landon. She could have gotten fired for pulling that stunt but she didn't care. Her whole world stopped, and all that mattered was banging Landon. She is ALL OVER HIM, not like touchy touchy kino but like grabbing his package, smelling his neck, it was intense.

What Happens Next

I go to bathroom, and Landon walks in, I go in a casual way while peeing, "Hi, my name is Mike, I gotta question for you." Landon goes, "Sure what's up?" I go, "You can have any girl in this bar, you can have that gorgeous bartender, but you told her no, why?" At this point he is checking out my package, and i'm weirded out and move closer into the urinal feeling like this guy is nuts. He says "well you see I have this really special connection to this girl back home and i'm just not emotionally ready to start anything with any other female, I respect females..." I cut him off and say "Ok man, i'm gunna go try and have meaningless sex, and get drunk, later." (I'm normally "That Guy..." in a lot of party/club situations) He gives me this hurt look like I totally didn't respect anything he said.

Point of the Story

How come when guys finally get it, they don't want it?

How come this dude is so weird?

Why will a girl drop everything ( her currect college job and not being the girl people don't refer to as "The one that slept with Landon") for one night with one dude she probably won't talk to again? Discuss
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mjfan12

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Maybe he found the one he really loves.

all guys are different, not all can just do any and every girl in sight. Some want girls with substance.
 

MercutioTHEGREAT

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Through my short lived life of being a Don juan i'ved learn something.That's just A Normal Male habit

You always want what you can't have but when you have it where's the fun in that? In all about the mystery that makes us Want women. When you look at a girls pants while she walkin and she has a Fat A** you immediatly think "Oh my God what if I was F***king her damn that would make my day" And that's any guy who is'nt gay. Now when anything is thrown at you (let's say that girl came back and knew exactly what you said) and she says "I know what you want so lets have sex" you will A.Freeze up and recieve abnormal shrinkage:( B. Get nervous and still do her:cool: or C. Figure out some Gay ass reason to say No:down:

the truth is there is a sport in getting women. Hard to get girls not A-W but just HTG's will make the sport tougher better and if you are a competitive guy and you never settle for anything less than HB10+ than you my friend are a Don Juan.. Landon because he had so many chicks there was no sport and the girl was less interesting and dropped her status to him. simple as that
 

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Think of it this way: if every day was your birthday, then it wouldn't be very special after awhile, would it?

If you constantly have girls throwing themselves at you without even wanting to know you, I'm sure it devalues the whole experience after awhile. You know they're doing it just because you were on some stupid TV show.

My guess is that at first, Landon had tons of wild sex with every hot girl who approached him. But after the novelty wore off, he realized it wasn't all that great and he wanted a girl who liked him and valued him for who he was before he became famous.
 

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or maybe he wasn't attracted to the bartender


just because you thought she was hot doesn't mean he did too

As for the girl dropping her job to be with him, just about every girl loves the Real World. She would be the envy of all of her friends if she had sex with him.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've seen that guy on the real world show. I agree with one of the poster's that this guy has had his fine share of women for a decent part of his life. And I bet you he has no idea that this site even exists. I don't think he is weird, he just has a different point of view now and that he's always 'had it' with the ladies and now has even more since his exposure from being on t.v as opposed to your average joe. His 15 minutes of fame will end and the clock is tickin. So you weren't phased by his 'mtv status' big deal.
 
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