Yes and no. Low self esteem girls will always have their cards stacked up against them in making good decisions like you said. However, there are even some girls with high self esteem who still aren't able to make good judgements in planning trips, buying good products, etc which can also spill over into picking guys. So IMO good judgement isn't directly correlated to self esteem but is a factor nonetheless. It's minor but still a distinction.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Landing a steady gf, LTR, or even someone who is wife material
- Thread starter Dash Riprock
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
someone that has a high self esteem , but has poor judgment from my experience either is super spoiled , which most of times it just means that is just a vain person , either a narcissist
This type of people are also not desirable for ltr , and might also be a reason on why they might have a high partner count
but some exceptions exist for sure , like in everything
Dash. You're hitting nails on the head here.
I'm not speaking for all men here - but I think a lot will agree - but I want a sort of balance. The appearance of a girl and her character, so to put it plainly, the outside and inside of a girl. If a girl is a solid 9 in the looks departement, but has a crappy 5 personality I would still do her, but she'll never be anyone important in my life. But I've been madly in love with 6 (looks) / 10 (personality) girls.
And that girl has to want me too ofcourse. I'm a solid 3 in my best hair days
Amen brother. I'll be honest here.. me and my other head never take this into account when dating a girl, but it's true and maybe some day I'll settle down and I'm not going to do this with a girl who has zero sense of humor, shiit for brains and a temper most Italians can only dream of but has very good looks... because the looks go and the shiity personality remains. A bit like avocado's. They look great for a while and age quite fast. In the end only the inner core remains. Make the core count.
Edit: Sorry. Just realised I compared girls to avocado's. I mean WTH?
Fvck dude, I would've had to take away your man card if you mentioned avocado toast. LOL
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.