“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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RamboCS

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Ok, so I got a few situations in which I'm macking on girls that have boyfriends, and its starting to very slightly irritate me. This one girl that sits in front of me in class, for example, starts a conversation with me today...

Her: Nice shirt, I love Nintendo.
(I was wearing a Mario mushroom shirt, more for the magic mushroom aspect than the Mario aspect, but I like 'em both. I also like taking magic mushrooms whilst playing Mario, but thats another subject for another day. ;) )
Her: Me and my boyfriend played for 3 days straight once. : pointless story I don't recall paying much attention to :

So whats the point of starting a convo with me, only to mention your boyfriend in the next breath? I've never even heard his name and have no interest in knowing any information about him or about him and your relationship, why drag him into the convo?

Other ladies, be them coworkers or fellow classmates, show interest, some a lot of aforementioned interest, but they're all taken by some kid they've been dating for like 3 years. I don't really give a f*ck, in that I wouldn't be afraid to throw down the fisticuffs or anything. :box: I'm just curious as to what others have done in similar situations.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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...wow... u don't realize that she came to TALK TO YOU cuz she was interested? maybe she's implying that she's BORED with her boyfriend and trying to meet someone NEW and HOT to CHEAT WITH? :crazy:
 

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Oh yea, this thought crossed my mind, which is why I still talk to her unphased when she mentions her bf, but she seems hesitant. Once I said "Tonight I'm rolling," and she says "You're coming to Rutland?" (her hometown) with a big smile, so I said "Yea, I'm coming over, don't you remember?" And she just looked at me dumbfounded. I think next time she makes mention of whoeverda**** I'll just ask her how long shes been dating him. Regardless of her answer, I'll say something along the lines of "You must be getting real bored," or something. I usually better at thinking of something clever and refreshingly witty on the spot, so w/e.
 

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It's a simple sh1t test. She's mentioning her boyfriend to see if you elicit some sort of jealous or indignant response. If you become standoffish or peeved, she can easily judge if you are attracted to her. That's pretty much all there is.

-Damian
 

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Lol. I usually bring up her boyfriend, and try to see if he's worth her. Like, I tell her I can't stand to be around desperate guys. And ****, and explain why they seem to be overprotective. And ****. Then the girl will start talking about how her boyfriend calls all the time, and does **** like that. Then I'm like "Yeah, too bad you can't have a real boyfriend."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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08aisaac, positively genius. I'll be adding that one to my repertoire. Props

-Damian
 
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