"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lame text?

TheWolfMan

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Met a girl at a bar over the weekend, we hit it off and I scored her number. Hit her up the next day and asked if she had fun, she said she did, I said good that's what I like to hear and then left it at that. I was thinking of sending this tomorrow "Hey ___, we should meet up or chill sometime. Just throwin that out there" is this lame? Her interest level was pretty high when we met, but I figured I'd let it sit a couple days before I hit her up again so I don't know where it's at right now. Or should I just ask what she's doing on X day then say well we should meet up. Yeah I know I'm over-analyzing.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Uncharted

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Try calling, but if you must text:

You: hey xx it's (your name) what are you up to
HB: blah blah
You: haha cool - lets get drinks this week, i'm free on Tuesday/Thursday which is better for you?

Done
 

JoeMarron

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Send her a text teasing her about something you guys talked about at the bar. That'll remind her of the good emotions she felt with you. Then simply ask her out. "Lets chill at (so and so) at (so and so time)." Escalate, isolate her, bang, then give us the lay report
 
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