"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kidkoala

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ever been to a lair? I feel like they may have the potential to really help or be really creepy. Any personal experiences would be appreciated so i can decide if i want to join one. THANKS
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Delta

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actually, more than talk, i'd like to find a lair so that you don't have to try to go on pick ups at clubs and such alone.

just having a lair, group of guys, for support and to hang out with between approaches at a bar or club would be awesome.

yeah, never mind so much technique... i want lairs for practice.

delta
 

everywomanshero

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Like anything else, some guys in lairs are helpful and others are hurtful.

You have to remember guys are there for different reasons in the first place. Some are cool guys who are just coming out of a relationship that drained them of their social circle, some guys are there because they are new to the city, some guys are curious how XYZ principle is applied, and other guys are there because they have poor interpersonal skills. The guys with poor interpersonal skills (unfortunately) are seduction literalists. They hold things their favorite PUAs said to be relevant to every context and situation under the son. They think if they use poor interpersonal skills enough thousands of times the results will eventually change. Likely, what will happen instead is they will one day finally realize that they are screwing up and not do that anymore. So in a sense, they will "get better" eventually, but in the meantime they are extremely annoying to be around. Just try to steer clear of that kind, you won't change their minds with reason.
 
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