"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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kidkoala

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ever been to a lair? I feel like they may have the potential to really help or be really creepy. Any personal experiences would be appreciated so i can decide if i want to join one. THANKS
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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actually, more than talk, i'd like to find a lair so that you don't have to try to go on pick ups at clubs and such alone.

just having a lair, group of guys, for support and to hang out with between approaches at a bar or club would be awesome.

yeah, never mind so much technique... i want lairs for practice.

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Like anything else, some guys in lairs are helpful and others are hurtful.

You have to remember guys are there for different reasons in the first place. Some are cool guys who are just coming out of a relationship that drained them of their social circle, some guys are there because they are new to the city, some guys are curious how XYZ principle is applied, and other guys are there because they have poor interpersonal skills. The guys with poor interpersonal skills (unfortunately) are seduction literalists. They hold things their favorite PUAs said to be relevant to every context and situation under the son. They think if they use poor interpersonal skills enough thousands of times the results will eventually change. Likely, what will happen instead is they will one day finally realize that they are screwing up and not do that anymore. So in a sense, they will "get better" eventually, but in the meantime they are extremely annoying to be around. Just try to steer clear of that kind, you won't change their minds with reason.
 
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