"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ladyz in college class

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I am taking an evening class at community college just for fun (already have a bs degree) and have a 7 and a 9 in my class. The 9 is 20 yrs old, and the 7 is around my age (28). 20 yr old is young and dumb, but what a fine ass, and face. The 28 yr old is in aweseome shape, its jsut that shes older. Both have been giving me high interest signals, and I want them both. We are in a classroom with just 20 people.
Do I realistically have a shot at dating these two women at once, from the same class. I mean, logistically, I have lots of hurdles, ie they observe everyone I talk to and observe each other when the other interacts with me. SHould I just make a decision and go for one of them so that both dont think I'm a player?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tha Realnezz

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Go for both.

The younger one first as she'll be prone to jealoust,gossip,etc.She might rejhect you if she sees you with the other one.With the older one you have less chances of that.
 

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Sorry gentlemen. This is off-topic.

Balancing two girls in the same classroom doesn't seen like a situation unique to mature men.

Moved to Don Juan Discussion.
 

DJ_Dork

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Ask them both if they like to participate in a threesome sex fantasy.

/lame
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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biker_gixxer

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I'd be working them both. They're women, one of them is bound to do something to piss you off. When this happens, you have the other to fall back on.
 

Big Pappy

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If both ladies are giving you good go ahead signals, get both of their numbers and ask them out in alphabetical order.

One gets Tuesday, the other Wednesday. Let them earn weekend status.
 

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Play them off each other, but be subtle. The 28 year old 7 will try harder if she even peripherally knows she's competing with a 20 year old 9. The 9 will compete, and you might be able to draw her in, but remember a 20 y.o. 9 is probably getting a lot of attention from other sources as well. Work the 9, but string the 7 in too. At 28, the 7 has an establishing order in that she's almost reached her expiration date and she'll want to cash her chips in.
 

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I love the idea of getting into a "project" with them. I would, however, get one going with each one individually. Also, as I have been in this situation, it will TOTALL AMPLIFY you if you study and really prepare for the class.

Nothing is more attractive than intelligence. You want to own that space, so don't just just talk to both of them, make that classroom YOUR HOUSE. Social proof is a phenomenon that I have just recently really began to "get."
 
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