"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ladyz in college class

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I am taking an evening class at community college just for fun (already have a bs degree) and have a 7 and a 9 in my class. The 9 is 20 yrs old, and the 7 is around my age (28). 20 yr old is young and dumb, but what a fine ass, and face. The 28 yr old is in aweseome shape, its jsut that shes older. Both have been giving me high interest signals, and I want them both. We are in a classroom with just 20 people.
Do I realistically have a shot at dating these two women at once, from the same class. I mean, logistically, I have lots of hurdles, ie they observe everyone I talk to and observe each other when the other interacts with me. SHould I just make a decision and go for one of them so that both dont think I'm a player?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tha Realnezz

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Go for both.

The younger one first as she'll be prone to jealoust,gossip,etc.She might rejhect you if she sees you with the other one.With the older one you have less chances of that.
 

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Sorry gentlemen. This is off-topic.

Balancing two girls in the same classroom doesn't seen like a situation unique to mature men.

Moved to Don Juan Discussion.
 

DJ_Dork

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Ask them both if they like to participate in a threesome sex fantasy.

/lame
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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biker_gixxer

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I'd be working them both. They're women, one of them is bound to do something to piss you off. When this happens, you have the other to fall back on.
 

Big Pappy

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If both ladies are giving you good go ahead signals, get both of their numbers and ask them out in alphabetical order.

One gets Tuesday, the other Wednesday. Let them earn weekend status.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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Play them off each other, but be subtle. The 28 year old 7 will try harder if she even peripherally knows she's competing with a 20 year old 9. The 9 will compete, and you might be able to draw her in, but remember a 20 y.o. 9 is probably getting a lot of attention from other sources as well. Work the 9, but string the 7 in too. At 28, the 7 has an establishing order in that she's almost reached her expiration date and she'll want to cash her chips in.
 

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I love the idea of getting into a "project" with them. I would, however, get one going with each one individually. Also, as I have been in this situation, it will TOTALL AMPLIFY you if you study and really prepare for the class.

Nothing is more attractive than intelligence. You want to own that space, so don't just just talk to both of them, make that classroom YOUR HOUSE. Social proof is a phenomenon that I have just recently really began to "get."
 
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