Romanemp22
Master Don Juan
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They are called cvm dumpsters for a reason.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I can see the glaring difference.All a woman has to do is open her legs and hold still. Even a fat ugly woman can literally bang thousands of men if she wants to. This just goes to show how different the game is for men.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It's interesting that on this highly cynical forum, which often pushes the idea that women are only good for fleeting sex, and then be disposed of, there is still a sense that loses her value if he she loses her ability to pair bond. Shows that males aren't completely inclined just to swing from tree to tree planting their seed.Yes, The higher her notch count is, the more likely she is to see men only as fleeting sex experiences and be less receptive to eventual pair bonding or LTR’s.
the problem I would say that all this new media is destroying bonding , as women are very interested in being adoredIt's interesting that on this highly cynical forum, which often pushes the idea that women are only good for fleeting sex, and then be disposed of, there is still a sense that loses her value if he she loses her ability to pair bond. Shows that males aren't completely inclined just to swing from tree to tree planting their seed.
It also shows that maybe we should be teaching men to swing from tree to tree planting seedsIt's interesting that on this highly cynical forum, which often pushes the idea that women are only good for fleeting sex, and then be disposed of, there is still a sense that loses her value if he she loses her ability to pair bond. Shows that males aren't completely inclined just to swing from tree to tree planting their seed.
Yep, this ^. It's too bad men have made it this way. It's all supply and demand. If men didn't have the demand for such women for sex, and women actually had to earn their keep in the world via other ways besides opening their legs, just think of how much better the dynamic between men and women would be. Be MUCH more favorable for men than today. We are the ones who run the world and get things done. Women do small picture things, but we do the big stuff.All a woman has to do is open her legs and hold still. Even a fat ugly woman can literally bang thousands of men if she wants to. This just goes to show how different the game is for men.
But that is just nature. We're made that way. It's no use wishing that things were different, you just have to accept that this is the way things are.Yep, this ^. It's too bad men have made it this way. It's all supply and demand. If men didn't have the demand for such women for sex, and women actually had to earn their keep in the world via other ways besides opening their legs, just think of how much better the dynamic between men and women would be. Be MUCH more favorable for men than today. We are the ones who run the world and get things done. Women do small picture things, but we do the big stuff.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Guess I'll erase that from my to do listI lived in florida, home of many nudist resorts, and yes that is definitely the case. I went on a cruise at age 20 and was excited to climb up to the nude sunbathing deck. When I got there, I left immediately and greatly wished I could un see what I just saw.
I got friends like this. They are honestly an absolute riot and utterly unapologetic about it.Same with men. I'm sure you know what I mean after reading plenty of threads on SS. Some guys can't get off the pu$$y carousel. I may be one of them.