Romanemp22
Master Don Juan
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They are called cvm dumpsters for a reason.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I can see the glaring difference.All a woman has to do is open her legs and hold still. Even a fat ugly woman can literally bang thousands of men if she wants to. This just goes to show how different the game is for men.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's interesting that on this highly cynical forum, which often pushes the idea that women are only good for fleeting sex, and then be disposed of, there is still a sense that loses her value if he she loses her ability to pair bond. Shows that males aren't completely inclined just to swing from tree to tree planting their seed.Yes, The higher her notch count is, the more likely she is to see men only as fleeting sex experiences and be less receptive to eventual pair bonding or LTR’s.
the problem I would say that all this new media is destroying bonding , as women are very interested in being adoredIt's interesting that on this highly cynical forum, which often pushes the idea that women are only good for fleeting sex, and then be disposed of, there is still a sense that loses her value if he she loses her ability to pair bond. Shows that males aren't completely inclined just to swing from tree to tree planting their seed.
It also shows that maybe we should be teaching men to swing from tree to tree planting seedsIt's interesting that on this highly cynical forum, which often pushes the idea that women are only good for fleeting sex, and then be disposed of, there is still a sense that loses her value if he she loses her ability to pair bond. Shows that males aren't completely inclined just to swing from tree to tree planting their seed.
Yep, this ^. It's too bad men have made it this way. It's all supply and demand. If men didn't have the demand for such women for sex, and women actually had to earn their keep in the world via other ways besides opening their legs, just think of how much better the dynamic between men and women would be. Be MUCH more favorable for men than today. We are the ones who run the world and get things done. Women do small picture things, but we do the big stuff.All a woman has to do is open her legs and hold still. Even a fat ugly woman can literally bang thousands of men if she wants to. This just goes to show how different the game is for men.
But that is just nature. We're made that way. It's no use wishing that things were different, you just have to accept that this is the way things are.Yep, this ^. It's too bad men have made it this way. It's all supply and demand. If men didn't have the demand for such women for sex, and women actually had to earn their keep in the world via other ways besides opening their legs, just think of how much better the dynamic between men and women would be. Be MUCH more favorable for men than today. We are the ones who run the world and get things done. Women do small picture things, but we do the big stuff.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Guess I'll erase that from my to do listI lived in florida, home of many nudist resorts, and yes that is definitely the case. I went on a cruise at age 20 and was excited to climb up to the nude sunbathing deck. When I got there, I left immediately and greatly wished I could un see what I just saw.
I got friends like this. They are honestly an absolute riot and utterly unapologetic about it.Same with men. I'm sure you know what I mean after reading plenty of threads on SS. Some guys can't get off the pu$$y carousel. I may be one of them.