Romanemp22
Master Don Juan
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They are called cvm dumpsters for a reason.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I can see the glaring difference.All a woman has to do is open her legs and hold still. Even a fat ugly woman can literally bang thousands of men if she wants to. This just goes to show how different the game is for men.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It's interesting that on this highly cynical forum, which often pushes the idea that women are only good for fleeting sex, and then be disposed of, there is still a sense that loses her value if he she loses her ability to pair bond. Shows that males aren't completely inclined just to swing from tree to tree planting their seed.Yes, The higher her notch count is, the more likely she is to see men only as fleeting sex experiences and be less receptive to eventual pair bonding or LTR’s.
the problem I would say that all this new media is destroying bonding , as women are very interested in being adoredIt's interesting that on this highly cynical forum, which often pushes the idea that women are only good for fleeting sex, and then be disposed of, there is still a sense that loses her value if he she loses her ability to pair bond. Shows that males aren't completely inclined just to swing from tree to tree planting their seed.
It also shows that maybe we should be teaching men to swing from tree to tree planting seedsIt's interesting that on this highly cynical forum, which often pushes the idea that women are only good for fleeting sex, and then be disposed of, there is still a sense that loses her value if he she loses her ability to pair bond. Shows that males aren't completely inclined just to swing from tree to tree planting their seed.
Yep, this ^. It's too bad men have made it this way. It's all supply and demand. If men didn't have the demand for such women for sex, and women actually had to earn their keep in the world via other ways besides opening their legs, just think of how much better the dynamic between men and women would be. Be MUCH more favorable for men than today. We are the ones who run the world and get things done. Women do small picture things, but we do the big stuff.All a woman has to do is open her legs and hold still. Even a fat ugly woman can literally bang thousands of men if she wants to. This just goes to show how different the game is for men.
But that is just nature. We're made that way. It's no use wishing that things were different, you just have to accept that this is the way things are.Yep, this ^. It's too bad men have made it this way. It's all supply and demand. If men didn't have the demand for such women for sex, and women actually had to earn their keep in the world via other ways besides opening their legs, just think of how much better the dynamic between men and women would be. Be MUCH more favorable for men than today. We are the ones who run the world and get things done. Women do small picture things, but we do the big stuff.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Guess I'll erase that from my to do listI lived in florida, home of many nudist resorts, and yes that is definitely the case. I went on a cruise at age 20 and was excited to climb up to the nude sunbathing deck. When I got there, I left immediately and greatly wished I could un see what I just saw.
I got friends like this. They are honestly an absolute riot and utterly unapologetic about it.Same with men. I'm sure you know what I mean after reading plenty of threads on SS. Some guys can't get off the pu$$y carousel. I may be one of them.