ladies looking away when I look at her

[tom121]

me, my family and friends were having a sea food dinner at a resturant, across from me at the other table is this hot lady, so I was talking to my dad (which is at the lady's direction) then I was smiling at something my dad said, I noticed she was looking at my direction smiling, probably thought I was smiling at her.. I didn't look her in the eye and acted casually... I looked back seconds later and she quickly looked away...

I mean what the ****, everytime when I caught a girl looking at me, wheither it's my ugly face or whatever they are looking at, they always looked away when I look at them...

 

[belividere]

Yeah the first reaction that most people have when they are caught checking someone out is to look away. She was checking you out.

 

[Donald Kaufman]

*nods*

Yeah the first reaction that most people have when they are caught checking someone out is to look away. She was checking you out.

 

[tom121]

umm... well now I know I can approach her

 

[jakethasnake]

Dude, I remember your picture. And I think I know why girls look away.


You always have that timid, 'deer caught in the headlights' look about you. No offense, but it's typical of Chinese dudes - they always look scared or timid. So make like a Korean and give the girl a devilish smile as you meet eyes. Don't show teeth, just give a crooked smile with your head lowered. This is really corny, but think George Clooney in ER. Women love that - it's been working for me since 1999.


If she smiles, go approach her and introduce yourself. Get her number, extract yourself.

 

[tom121]

scared? timid? haha,,, here is a recent picture of me, except you can't see the acne on the sideburns

it must be my eye lids

 

[jakethasnake]

Looks like someone just put a finger up your azz. Try the brooding, frowning look instead.

 

[DJLegion]

Tom, do you hit the gym regularly?

 

[tom121]

Originally posted by DJLegion
Tom, do you hit the gym regularly?

no, i know i am skinny, it's in my blood, well, actually my dads, brothers, grandpas, great great grandpas

i can eat lots of healthy food and not gain any weight

 

[tyciol]

Eat like a sumo!

 

[TizZle]

Weight Gainer is helping me get thru my weight plateau. Hopefully it keeps working.

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

Damn dude, I thought I was skinny. The first thing you should do is get a gym membership.

 

[I-am-someone]

Tom, you do have that "deer caught in the headlights look" ... you look like there's a truck about to hit you...
But anyway, I used to think I was skinny for life as well. I've gained 14kg since then, which have mostly formed into muscle.
Start working out, you'll feel hungrier. Eat more, figure out what are the best things for you to eat.