"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ladies looking away when I look at her

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me, my family and friends were having a sea food dinner at a resturant, across from me at the other table is this hot lady, so I was talking to my dad (which is at the lady's direction) then I was smiling at something my dad said, I noticed she was looking at my direction smiling, probably thought I was smiling at her.. I didn't look her in the eye and acted casually... I looked back seconds later and she quickly looked away...

I mean what the ****, everytime when I caught a girl looking at me, wheither it's my ugly face or whatever they are looking at, they always looked away when I look at them...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yeah the first reaction that most people have when they are caught checking someone out is to look away. She was checking you out.
 
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Dude, I remember your picture. And I think I know why girls look away.


You always have that timid, 'deer caught in the headlights' look about you. No offense, but it's typical of Chinese dudes - they always look scared or timid. So make like a Korean and give the girl a devilish smile as you meet eyes. Don't show teeth, just give a crooked smile with your head lowered. This is really corny, but think George Clooney in ER. Women love that - it's been working for me since 1999.


If she smiles, go approach her and introduce yourself. Get her number, extract yourself.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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scared? timid? haha,,, here is a recent picture of me, except you can't see the acne on the sideburns



it must be my eye lids :(
 
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Looks like someone just put a finger up your azz. :D Try the brooding, frowning look instead.
 
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Originally posted by DJLegion
Tom, do you hit the gym regularly?
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no, i know i am skinny, it's in my blood, well, actually my dads, brothers, grandpas, great great grandpas

i can eat lots of healthy food and not gain any weight :(
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Weight Gainer is helping me get thru my weight plateau. Hopefully it keeps working.
 
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Damn dude, I thought I was skinny. The first thing you should do is get a gym membership.
 
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Tom, you do have that "deer caught in the headlights look" ... you look like there's a truck about to hit you...
But anyway, I used to think I was skinny for life as well. I've gained 14kg since then, which have mostly formed into muscle.
Start working out, you'll feel hungrier. Eat more, figure out what are the best things for you to eat.
 
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