Ladies Advice, where are they on the site?

[Pakwah]

How many ladies are on here to give us advice from the opposite side? Sometimes i prefer a ladies look on things, where are they? Or is there a simliar site like this for ladies?
Im sure this q has been asked before so sorry if its a constant repost.

 

[penkitten]

hey... over here

 

[magickarl]

I'm not trying to step on anybody's toes here, but...

If you could get straight answers from a woman, this site wouldn't exist. While there are exceptions, on the whole most women are going to lie. There are a myriad of reasons ranging from the slut defense to just women being crazy in general.

In fact, the prime reason that AFCism exists in the first place is directly related to the advice women give to men. Not direct advice so to speak, but a quick flip through your TV stations or a listen to whatever garbage is on the radio will quickly reveal what women "find attractive." The complete opposite is usually true. Hell, women even lie to other women about what they want in a man.

A woman will instruct you to more or less spoil her. If you follow this advice the relationship will fail. MagicKarl guarantees you that one or more (in many cases ALL) of the following will happen:

- The woman will cheat on the man
- The man will cheat on the woman
- The woman will break up with the man
- The man will break up with the woman
- The woman will feel "unfulfilled" or "unsatisfied" with the relationship
- The man will feel used & abused
- The woman will become bored
- The quantity of sex in the relationship will decrease
- The quality of sex in the relationship will decrease

You get the gist. For the most part, it is a terrible idea to take a woman's advice. There is a reason that most true players "take after their daddy", and that is because they learned the trade from their daddy - not their momma.

Just the other day on MySpace I observed on a girls page a graphic entitled "How to treat a woman." It was a collection of words and phrases in gut-wrenching bright, sparkly text. Phrases included: Respect her.]Love her.Hold her.Tell her everything will be alright.Kiss her. Cry WITH her. Run your fingers through her hair. Cherish her. Make her #1. Ask her how her day was. Cuddle with her. Tell her what makes you insecure.

The list spanned another 43 or so phrases that shared a similar tone.

Jesus tits and E-gads batman! Women are ****ing selfish. It sounds like an idiot proof guide to make yourself her voluntary slave. A mans list would be much less complex:

Doggystyle.*******.Swallow.Shut up now and then.Cheeseburger

Unless she is a lesbian, never take a woman's advice on how to get in to a woman's pants.

 

[Pakwah]

the typical girl would not be here anyways, what we should and would get is the ones that are not like every girl out there.
You know, the ones that hang with more guys, have few girlfriends cuz they hate the drama, i know 2 girls like that, they are not prissy, or stuck up, or hung up on getting a man, they are not ugly, they don't have much in common with the common woman, yet they can share some of their insight, or help us pick their brains a little more.

 

[Jitterbug]

You know, the ones that hang with more guys, have few girlfriends cuz they hate the drama.

:crackup: Hang around here mate and read some threads on that type of girls. You'd want to keep your shields up around them.

 

[pLaYtHiNg]

Penkitten... good to know I'm not the only woman here! I frequent this site because I want to get a better understanding of the male perspective... Women's sites offer advice that usually isn't as applicable, I've found. They tend to focus on communicating with men as WOMEN, but I figure it's probably easier to speak "man" then it is to teach "woman" to a guy. If that makes any sense at all.

Besides, I love men. Why wouldn't I want to be here??

 

[horaholic]

slut!

JK.

Pakwah, girls who have few girlfriends are bad news! Do not trust them. The fact is, what girls WANT, and what they are ATTRACTED to, are two different things. They usually dont know what they are attracted to, and thus, cant help us out. They say they want a nice guy, then bang the jerk. That says it all with them. They aren't necessarily lying. They WANT to be attracted to a certain kind of guy, but they cant help the fact that they are attracted to the alpha caveman guy, even if they dont want to be. They are good for helping us with say... cologne scents, or what color shirt to buy, and how to eat pvssy and stuff like that.

 

[Hooligan Harry]

the typical girl would not be here anyways, what we should and would get is the ones that are not like every girl out there.
You know, the ones that hang with more guys, have few girlfriends cuz they hate the drama, i know 2 girls like that, they are not prissy, or stuck up, or hung up on getting a man, they are not ugly, they don't have much in common with the common woman, yet they can share some of their insight, or help us pick their brains a little more.

Oh good god.

 

[Maxtro]

I post on LoveShack when I want to get female advice. Some of it is good and some isn't. It's probably 40% good advice to 60% bad. Sometimes it's just refreshing to hear a woman's opinion no matter how silly it is. Though I have received some really good advice there a couple of times. I've also read the stupidest shit that made me laugh out loud.

When taking advice from men or women, it's up to you to judge the content of it. If something bad happens, it's your fault not theirs.

 

[Desdinova]

Moved to AE...

 

[speed dawg]

The absolute last thing this site needs is women giving advice.

 

[STR8UP]

The only reason this site even exists is BECAUSE of the advice women give to men.

Very, very few women have the awareness of PK and oh so few others.

 

[pLaYtHiNg]

The absolute last thing this site needs is women giving advice.

I originally came here FOR advice, but have found myself giving it out, too. Ooops.

Disregard all pink posts!!

 

[Jitterbug]

I think women's feedback can be useful if you're advanced enough to know exactly what you're asking them about. They can be decent advisors, and from their advices, you can take in the good bits and discard the bad bits. The problem with most guys asking women for advices is that they expect the women to be their mentors. That's a recipe for disasters.

 

[STR8UP]

I think women's feedback can be useful if you're advanced enough to know exactly what you're asking them about. They can be decent advisors, and from their advices, you can take in the good bits and discard the bad bits. The problem with most guys asking women for advices is that they expect the women to be their mentors. That's a recipe for disasters.

Totally agree.

I will often listen intently to what a woman says, separating the wheat from the chaff to mine some great nuggets of info.

The problem with this is that you HAVE to know when you are getting good info and when you are getting game killing garbage. With women there will often be both in the very same sentence. Anyone who is unplugged should be able to easily tell the difference, but if you aren't very clued up it's best not to take any advice from women (and most men for that matter).

 

[Bible_Belt]

Very, very few women have the awareness of PK

I know. One of these days one of us is going to marry her.

No...wait....that already happened.

 

[CaptainJ]

I was talking to 2 on my chick friends the other day in a pub. Everyone was quite drunk, so there were more fun and interesting conversations.

Anyway, I asked one what her ideal type of man was, the answer:
Really Tall, muscular, golden medium length hair, has to be able to make the girl laugh, has to have balls, bold, confident.

(she was basically describing me to myself)

Sounds about right? None of this "He has to shower me with attention, cherish me, console me crap.

We talked about another guy we knew and she was like "He's gorgeous and I love him, but HE NEEDs TO GROW SOME BALLS, he's such a b1tch!" I thought this was funny.

So it seems girls do have an idea of who they want, yet maybe it takes a few drinks to find out

Also, I ended up giving one of the girls advice on how to get a man to fall for her lol. It was the whole hot and cold, push pull idea, and she said she would use it.

 

[penkitten]

hehe you guys made me smile today

anyhow, what is the issue that you need a gal's point of view on?
you can either go ahead and post it in the thread or feel free to pm.

hopefully we can get some sunday night chats going again pretty soon... i'm working on it, but not got it all together yet.

 

[Pakwah]

i want the advice of girls who's intentions dont make us end up here. I know that sounds like a contradiction, but its like this - every so often if i am at my sisters and there is a cosmo around, ill pick it up and see what they say about guys and how to get them...and i will tell her wether its right or wrong and why.

Example - i bumped into my ex the other day, in case anyone wonders why i see her so much, well its simple, child, any ways, was there the other day, tried to make some small talk, probably there a little longer than i should have been, i was dropping off the kid, and somewhere in the convo she says to me 'Don't you ever get lonely?'

She does not know alot about me, my gf recently moved away, and she is having problems with her bf...that is something where i think a girls and guys answer as to why she said that may differ. Penkitten? whats your take on that? Guys?

 

[Magma]

Yeah, PK is good stuff. She'll give you an honest and straight-forward female perspective, if that's what you're looking for.

As per LoveDump.blech, I am absolutely horrified by that place. *shivers*