"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lack of Sleep and Carbs

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I could only sleep for 3 hours yesterday night, and I'm feeling really weird toward carbs. I've been eating low carb for almost 1,5 years now, and I love it, so I don't really have problems with it. But since this morning I only can think about eating a tuna and lettuce sandwich (spaniard way, of course), and spaguetti lol.

Have you guys experienced something like this some time?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You probably should once in a while. Carb's aren't necessarily "bad", it's just unnecessary to put that much FUEL into your body when your not a pro-athelete and mostly sedentary. You learn about the fuel different carbs provide when you deplete carbs and you only add that one carb source. I was doing real good with low carb during most of the day and a light carb up via oranges or orange juice about 30 minutes before my workout.
 

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Could just be a random fluctuation. Maybe you've lost some weight from training hard and your appetite is creeping back up.

When I diet down to single digit bodyfat % I start to crave carbs like mad.
 

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@mrgoodstuff yeah, maybe I should add fruit to my diet, especially before exercising. I will try it for a couple of weeks and see how it works
@Armourhead I think you are right, I'm on a cut and maybe my body has to adjust.
Well, anyhow, I already had a good night of sleep and I feel normal already.
 

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@mrgoodstuff yeah, maybe I should add fruit to my diet, especially before exercising. I will try it for a couple of weeks and see how it works
@Armourhead I think you are right, I'm on a cut and maybe my body has to adjust.
Well, anyhow, I already had a good night of sleep and I feel normal already.
For some reason actual orange or grapefruit gave me more energy than the juice, possibly because the juice wasn't 100% real orange or grapefruit juice. But one or two oranges before a workout yields a lot of energy, and if you have depleted energy in a long workout, an orange after you workout perks you energy levels right up. You notice in 20-30 mins.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lack of sleep increases Ghrelin the hormone that tells your body it's hungry. It also changes brain functioning, lessening activity in the front of the brain that has to do with complex decision making and increasing activity in the part of the brain that has to do with rewards and cravings(junk food, carbs, etc). Study is below.

http://news.berkeley.edu/2013/08/06/poor-sleep-junk-food/
 

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@mrgoodstuff I will implement your orange supplement next week haha, I'll see how it works for me, thanks for the tip
@marmel75 thank you for the study, it's good to know that there is an explanation, because I was like wtf is wrong with me today haha
 

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@mrgoodstuff I will implement your orange supplement next week haha, I'll see how it works for me, thanks for the tip
@marmel75 thank you for the study, it's good to know that there is an explanation, because I was like wtf is wrong with me today haha
Yeah it works like magic. I was surprised natural nutrition can have such a noticeable effect.

I was doing a no carb deal to get fat down, and sometimes I would have an orange just right before my workout to have sufficient energy to power thru it. It worked too.
 

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I could only sleep for 3 hours yesterday night,

I drink a lot of coffee, never with sugar. In cold weather, I like it with a little coconut oil. In hot weather, I drink it black over ice. It's great re-hydration when hung over.
 

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I could only sleep for 3 hours yesterday night,

I drink a lot of coffee, never with sugar. In cold weather, I like it with a little coconut oil. In hot weather, I drink it black over ice. It's great re-hydration when hung over.
Are you me? I like adding almond liquor instead of coconut oil, but the rest is the same lol.

Mrgoodstuff, I forgot to report back, I've been eating oranges before exercising, sometimes kiwis instead, but yeah, makes working out way easier. Thanks for the tip!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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