"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lack of opportunity.

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somehow the past week, i have not seen alot of hb's.. actually, i've had close to no opportunities at all.

can anyone suggest what i can do? im not into clubs or bars, ive never really been into one.

ive tried the malls, but all i see are couples, which sucks. any ideas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Unless you live in the middle of nowhere you shouldn't have too many problems finding HB's. I live in a small town but still easily see 2-3 a day, and there are 100's more 20km down road at the malls.

You want to make sure you go out 2-3 times a week, to bars/pubs/clubs that attract young women, not old men's drinking clubs!.

Add to that going to your local shopping mall every couple of weeks, plus the gym if there's one near you.

Do those sorts of things and you'll find hot chicks are everywhere, I tend to see at least one super hb every 2-3 hours.

One thing is for sure you won't see any whilst sat at your pc reading this forum:) [unless of course you live in an appartment above a main shopping street!]
 

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Originally posted by -.-
somehow the past week, i have not seen alot of hb's.. actually, i've had close to no opportunities at all.

can anyone suggest what i can do? im not into clubs or bars, ive never really been into one.

ive tried the malls, but all i see are couples, which sucks. any ideas?
Nont into clubs or bars? That's cutting down on chances already. Go for a run or something.
 

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Re: Re: lack of opportunity.

Originally posted by crazykid
Nont into clubs or bars? That's cutting down on chances already. Go for a run or something.
It's not that i'm not into it.. I've just never really tried. I don't smoke or drink (Which is what everyone seems to do in bars or clubs)... Should I just go in? I mean, alone?

I just got my license and ride 2 weeks or so ago, I could go, but I feel unconfortable going alone. I have a couple of friends, but this is not their kind of thing. Should I go alone?
 

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how in the heck did you get with those two chicks you were talkin about in previous posts? Or at least, where in the heck?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I've had streaks like that, where I'll go into malls/etc and not see one HB. Kid Crazy is right tho, if you don't go to bars/clubs, you cut off at least 80% of your hb resources.

It's not that i'm not into it.. I've just never really tried. I don't smoke or drink (Which is what everyone seems to do in bars or clubs)... Should I just go in? I mean, alone?

I just got my license and ride 2 weeks or so ago, I could go, but I feel unconfortable going alone. I have a couple of friends, but this is not their kind of thing. Should I go alone?
I club alone at least 40% of the time. Here's some of my advice:

Most clubs have a busy night when all the regulars come out. This is the night you wanna go out on. Get to know these people, they always club, and make better wingmen then your non-clubbing friends. One thing you will notice about most regulars is that a lot of them also come to clubs alone. The reason is, when you know almost everyone at a certain club, you don't really need to bring friends, because they're already at the club. Approach and close HBs, and you will make friends easy, because most club regulars respect a guy with game.

Bars are for older people and lame frat boys who would rather sit around a table drinking pitchers then hooking up with girls.

Other then that, a really good place to do HB approaches is your local university campus.
 

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Originally posted by lizardfloyd
how in the heck did you get with those two chicks you were talkin about in previous posts? Or at least, where in the heck?
old friends/friends through association.. like a friend's friend.. or classmate.
 
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