"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lack of opportunity.

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somehow the past week, i have not seen alot of hb's.. actually, i've had close to no opportunities at all.

can anyone suggest what i can do? im not into clubs or bars, ive never really been into one.

ive tried the malls, but all i see are couples, which sucks. any ideas?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Unless you live in the middle of nowhere you shouldn't have too many problems finding HB's. I live in a small town but still easily see 2-3 a day, and there are 100's more 20km down road at the malls.

You want to make sure you go out 2-3 times a week, to bars/pubs/clubs that attract young women, not old men's drinking clubs!.

Add to that going to your local shopping mall every couple of weeks, plus the gym if there's one near you.

Do those sorts of things and you'll find hot chicks are everywhere, I tend to see at least one super hb every 2-3 hours.

One thing is for sure you won't see any whilst sat at your pc reading this forum:) [unless of course you live in an appartment above a main shopping street!]
 

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Originally posted by -.-
somehow the past week, i have not seen alot of hb's.. actually, i've had close to no opportunities at all.

can anyone suggest what i can do? im not into clubs or bars, ive never really been into one.

ive tried the malls, but all i see are couples, which sucks. any ideas?
Nont into clubs or bars? That's cutting down on chances already. Go for a run or something.
 

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Re: Re: lack of opportunity.

Originally posted by crazykid
Nont into clubs or bars? That's cutting down on chances already. Go for a run or something.
It's not that i'm not into it.. I've just never really tried. I don't smoke or drink (Which is what everyone seems to do in bars or clubs)... Should I just go in? I mean, alone?

I just got my license and ride 2 weeks or so ago, I could go, but I feel unconfortable going alone. I have a couple of friends, but this is not their kind of thing. Should I go alone?
 

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how in the heck did you get with those two chicks you were talkin about in previous posts? Or at least, where in the heck?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've had streaks like that, where I'll go into malls/etc and not see one HB. Kid Crazy is right tho, if you don't go to bars/clubs, you cut off at least 80% of your hb resources.

It's not that i'm not into it.. I've just never really tried. I don't smoke or drink (Which is what everyone seems to do in bars or clubs)... Should I just go in? I mean, alone?

I just got my license and ride 2 weeks or so ago, I could go, but I feel unconfortable going alone. I have a couple of friends, but this is not their kind of thing. Should I go alone?
I club alone at least 40% of the time. Here's some of my advice:

Most clubs have a busy night when all the regulars come out. This is the night you wanna go out on. Get to know these people, they always club, and make better wingmen then your non-clubbing friends. One thing you will notice about most regulars is that a lot of them also come to clubs alone. The reason is, when you know almost everyone at a certain club, you don't really need to bring friends, because they're already at the club. Approach and close HBs, and you will make friends easy, because most club regulars respect a guy with game.

Bars are for older people and lame frat boys who would rather sit around a table drinking pitchers then hooking up with girls.

Other then that, a really good place to do HB approaches is your local university campus.
 

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Originally posted by lizardfloyd
how in the heck did you get with those two chicks you were talkin about in previous posts? Or at least, where in the heck?
old friends/friends through association.. like a friend's friend.. or classmate.
 
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