"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lack of kino..still interest..?

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ive chilled with this chick 4 times so far...and i was too shy and nervous to make a move on her..most i went for was a hug on the 4th time we chilled. and today on aim she tells me she lieks me...her words were "ive been kinda feelin u lately:eek: " ....i th ought for sure there would be no interest as i didnt make my intentions clear when we chilled..but it turns out shes interested? so i guess now would be good time to make a move...? :wave:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i dunno, im just confused...ive been reading stuffon this site for over a year..and just in the past few weeks i started getting out in the real world. i've learned so much lately...but ya girls are confusing as ****
 
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i dunno, im just confused...ive been reading stuffon this site for over a year..and just in the past few weeks i started getting out in the real world. i've learned so much lately...but ya girls are confusing as ****
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Girls are confusing if you let them have power. Thats why the guy should always be the leader and take initiative, which means making the move.
 
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ya your right...ive been more aware of any negative self talk i have and trying to work on inner stuff....like just today, she told me she wanted to tell me something..and immediatly i started thinking "oh no, she doesnt like me...shes gona tell me off, bla bla bla"...and them bam, she goes and tells me she likes me. that was a big reality check for me...time to give myself more credit and power.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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make a move next time if the scenario is right, the timing is perfect. By her saying that, she gave you the green light, and she's expecting it.
 
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make a move next time if the scenario is right, the timing is perfect. By her saying that, she gave you the green light, and she's expecting it.
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If you go into the date with that in mind, you will over analyze when the "perfect" time is.
 
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