"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lack of kino..still interest..?

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ive chilled with this chick 4 times so far...and i was too shy and nervous to make a move on her..most i went for was a hug on the 4th time we chilled. and today on aim she tells me she lieks me...her words were "ive been kinda feelin u lately:eek: " ....i th ought for sure there would be no interest as i didnt make my intentions clear when we chilled..but it turns out shes interested? so i guess now would be good time to make a move...? :wave:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i dunno, im just confused...ive been reading stuffon this site for over a year..and just in the past few weeks i started getting out in the real world. i've learned so much lately...but ya girls are confusing as ****
 
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i dunno, im just confused...ive been reading stuffon this site for over a year..and just in the past few weeks i started getting out in the real world. i've learned so much lately...but ya girls are confusing as ****
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Girls are confusing if you let them have power. Thats why the guy should always be the leader and take initiative, which means making the move.
 
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ya your right...ive been more aware of any negative self talk i have and trying to work on inner stuff....like just today, she told me she wanted to tell me something..and immediatly i started thinking "oh no, she doesnt like me...shes gona tell me off, bla bla bla"...and them bam, she goes and tells me she likes me. that was a big reality check for me...time to give myself more credit and power.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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make a move next time if the scenario is right, the timing is perfect. By her saying that, she gave you the green light, and she's expecting it.
 
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make a move next time if the scenario is right, the timing is perfect. By her saying that, she gave you the green light, and she's expecting it.
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If you go into the date with that in mind, you will over analyze when the "perfect" time is.
 
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