lack of kino..still interest..?

[Bjj_playa]

ive chilled with this chick 4 times so far...and i was too shy and nervous to make a move on her..most i went for was a hug on the 4th time we chilled. and today on aim she tells me she lieks me...her words were "ive been kinda feelin u lately " ....i th ought for sure there would be no interest as i didnt make my intentions clear when we chilled..but it turns out shes interested? so i guess now would be good time to make a move...? :wave:

 

[ScrewIt]

yea, why not?

 

[Bjj_playa]

i dunno, im just confused...ive been reading stuffon this site for over a year..and just in the past few weeks i started getting out in the real world. i've learned so much lately...but ya girls are confusing as ****

 

[ScrewIt]

i dunno, im just confused...ive been reading stuffon this site for over a year..and just in the past few weeks i started getting out in the real world. i've learned so much lately...but ya girls are confusing as ****

Girls are confusing if you let them have power. Thats why the guy should always be the leader and take initiative, which means making the move.

 

[Bjj_playa]

ya your right...ive been more aware of any negative self talk i have and trying to work on inner stuff....like just today, she told me she wanted to tell me something..and immediatly i started thinking "oh no, she doesnt like me...shes gona tell me off, bla bla bla"...and them bam, she goes and tells me she likes me. that was a big reality check for me...time to give myself more credit and power.

 

[Sadao]

make a move next time if the scenario is right, the timing is perfect. By her saying that, she gave you the green light, and she's expecting it.

 

[ngaplz]

make a move next time if the scenario is right, the timing is perfect. By her saying that, she gave you the green light, and she's expecting it.

If you go into the date with that in mind, you will over analyze when the "perfect" time is.