"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kody's Bootcamp

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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kody_starr

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OK, I did the eye contact exercise also. Not for an hour, but it was part of my day yesterday. All I can say is, most people are VERY reluctant to make eye contact. As in, they avoid it if at all possible.

And if they do make eye contact, it is extremely fleeting. As in, a millisecond. If you hold eye contact, and they see you smiling precisely at the millisecond they dare to look, they will smile back with relief. People must think eye contact is shady these days. Or they lack confidence. Or something.
 
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Well from what I've observed, The people who don't look you in the eye when you're talking to them, shaking their hand, etc. are insecure. I was raised to look someone in the eye because it shows that you aren't intimidated by them and that you are a confident person. It's very unnatractive when you're talking to someone and they don't look you face to face because it gives you the feeling that they aren't giving you their undivided attention. If you're talking to someone you're fond of, always smile when you're looking at them. This isn't usually someone you want to beat up, so lighten up. I look everyone i meet in the eye, and having a happy expression shows them that you want to get to know them and that you aren't a threat
 
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