“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I recall a dinner one night when I was in my 20's. I was at an awards ceremony where my father was receiving an award. My parents and I were at a table with another recipient and his daughters. I was talking with the daughters and getting the Doggy Dinner Bowl Eyes from them(the two sisters).

My mother couldn't stand it and tells the girls something to the effect of " you know he has a wife and children at home ..."

Then there was the night a buddy and I met three girls at the bar who came to the Dennys after closing time with us. We were travelling through town with horses in our trailers parked near by so my buddy and I invited them to "come meet the horses" Well we each started hooking up with one of the girls and the third one felt left out and shouted for her friends and we both got left hanging....Shoulada had a wingman to fall on that grenade for us.
 
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One of my racing buddies was 10-years older than me and had a daughter that was annoyingly smitten.
Periodically had to remind her how it will never happen. While at a trophy presentation I'm chatting it up
With a cute gal. She swoops in and drilled her about how l'm (I don't know? Not good) I think she was
Punishing me for being loyal to my buddy?? <<Her dad..
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I was once on a bus in India and I couldn't help looking at the girl sitting opposite me who had the most perfect body and a beautiful face. She was looking back at me nervously and looking away. We both kept looking at each other trying not to make it too obvious. Eventually I asked her some directions and she was super helpful and friendly. I would have asked for her number but I was traveling with another girl.
 

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One of my racing buddies was 10-years older than me and had a daughter that was annoyingly smitten.
Periodically had to remind her how it will never happen. While at a trophy presentation I'm chatting it up
With a cute gal. She swoops in and drilled her about how l'm (I don't know? Not good) I think she was
Punishing me for being loyal to my buddy?? <<Her dad..
Something kind of similar happened to me once. There was a girl that had sort of put me in the friend zone and I'd kind of given up on her. We were traveling back to the capital city together and at the rest stop, I got talking to another girl that was really friendly and interested. The girl I was with saw this and butted in, then when we got back on the bus I took it as a sign of interest and escalated on her and this time, she didn't resist.

Another time the same thing happened at a disco in Bali - I went there with a sexy girl and her male friend that both worked at the airport. An Australian girl started talking to me, telling me all about her life in Singapore and it was obvious that she liked me - at this point the Indonesian girl came in close and rubbed up against me, at which point I got distracted from the conversation and started kissing her.

Jealousy can be quite powerful. Women are normally laid back and wait for the guy to come to them, but sometimes when they see another girl is going to take you away they can become a lot more aggressive.
 

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Three or four years ago I was dating this girl for a couple months. Things were starting to head in the direction of a relationship - she dropped the "L" word on me. At about the two month mark she invited me to meet her best-friend. Her best friend was a total b*tch to me (unprovoked), I took it multiple times without throwing anything back at her, and then I got dumped just a couple days later. I was blue-pilled back then. My mistake at the time was thinking I had to impress her friend, or at least stay on her good side. I repeated that same mistake again about a year later when the wife of a good friend of mine started flipping me sh*t - I cared what she thought about me because it was my close buddy's wife. But from both the scenarios, what I learned is that my boundaries are my boundaries, and I should not accept anyone criticizing me or being an a$$, no matter who they are. After learning those lessons, and ensuring I defend myself against unreasonable attitude and call people out for it, they usually respect me much more, and if they don't, the h*ll with them. If that causes an issue between me and a friend and they can't understand it wasn't my fault, then the friendship wasn't meant to be. So far that hasn't happened though - my friends have always stuck with me because they agreed that what was said wasn't called for.

A lot of c*ck blocking is going to happen when doing night-game and club-game. I avoid those scenarios for many of the same reasons as I avoid OLD. The quality of women are low and they feel they are perched up high on a throne.
 

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A lot of c*ck blocking is going to happen when doing night-game and club-game. I avoid those scenarios for many of the same reasons as I avoid OLD. The quality of women are low and they feel they are perched up high on a throne.
Night game is like playing super mario - there is one girl and 100 kokblockers. Sometimes the women are in league with the kockblockers.
 
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