Not in terms of size really, i'm 6'3 and 175. ( i was the same height 154 at the beginning of this year so i'm putting on a lot of weight ) but mentally i guess, or in terms of youth. i've always been the younger one at 18 while all of my main friends that i've grown up with are 20-25 . even though i work, goto school, and have done things that are much harder than any of them are capable of doing, i'm still the little one. no one else sees me as the little one that needs to be protected but them .. and now i'm getting a house with a couple of them so what the hell can i do to have them get rid of this paradigm about me? I kind of want to just stop hanging out with them and hang out with my other friends more but these guys are like brothers to me. should i still move in with them? stop hanging out with them as much and do my own thing? i'm sick of being seen as the little one.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Known as the little one
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