Something I am still struggling with is knowing when or how much to speak with women. For example at a party, I'd talk for a bit then the girl seems uninterested and then says she's gonna go get a drink and walks away. I can't really create a good flowing conversation with them. I myself grew up with anti social personality disorder and have not developed much emotionally when I was a kid, so this is something I am still learning. Sometimes I would overcompensate by speaking too much and that doesn't seem to be good. So if you guys could share some thoughts that would be very much appreciated.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Knowing when to talk
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Stop auditioning like a clown for a woman's approval. That's your problem.
Women can smell the insecurity and feel the approval seeking from a mile away. LOSE THE ATTITUDE that you have to prove something. Not just to women.. but to anyone. Lose that attitude.
I conduct myself in a loyal and arrogant fashion because I honestly believe most people are morons and I have no interest in trying to impress them. And this is the attitude all men should have.. ESPECIALLY when dealing with women.
Your job as a man is to get laid. The woman's job is to "build a relationship". Men are failing because they have been brainwashed into this estrogen soaked way of thinking where they have to think like a woman and act like a woman to attract a woman. And of course it doesn't work.
Women can smell the insecurity and feel the approval seeking from a mile away. LOSE THE ATTITUDE that you have to prove something. Not just to women.. but to anyone. Lose that attitude.
I conduct myself in a loyal and arrogant fashion because I honestly believe most people are morons and I have no interest in trying to impress them. And this is the attitude all men should have.. ESPECIALLY when dealing with women.
Your job as a man is to get laid. The woman's job is to "build a relationship". Men are failing because they have been brainwashed into this estrogen soaked way of thinking where they have to think like a woman and act like a woman to attract a woman. And of course it doesn't work.