Something I am still struggling with is knowing when or how much to speak with women. For example at a party, I'd talk for a bit then the girl seems uninterested and then says she's gonna go get a drink and walks away. I can't really create a good flowing conversation with them. I myself grew up with anti social personality disorder and have not developed much emotionally when I was a kid, so this is something I am still learning. Sometimes I would overcompensate by speaking too much and that doesn't seem to be good. So if you guys could share some thoughts that would be very much appreciated.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Knowing when to talk
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Stop auditioning like a clown for a woman's approval. That's your problem.
Women can smell the insecurity and feel the approval seeking from a mile away. LOSE THE ATTITUDE that you have to prove something. Not just to women.. but to anyone. Lose that attitude.
I conduct myself in a loyal and arrogant fashion because I honestly believe most people are morons and I have no interest in trying to impress them. And this is the attitude all men should have.. ESPECIALLY when dealing with women.
Your job as a man is to get laid. The woman's job is to "build a relationship". Men are failing because they have been brainwashed into this estrogen soaked way of thinking where they have to think like a woman and act like a woman to attract a woman. And of course it doesn't work.
Women can smell the insecurity and feel the approval seeking from a mile away. LOSE THE ATTITUDE that you have to prove something. Not just to women.. but to anyone. Lose that attitude.
I conduct myself in a loyal and arrogant fashion because I honestly believe most people are morons and I have no interest in trying to impress them. And this is the attitude all men should have.. ESPECIALLY when dealing with women.
Your job as a man is to get laid. The woman's job is to "build a relationship". Men are failing because they have been brainwashed into this estrogen soaked way of thinking where they have to think like a woman and act like a woman to attract a woman. And of course it doesn't work.