"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Know your DJ ABCs

tmpgstx

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Highlight, copy > paste and print the ABCs below. Use large font and put in on your door! Elaborate on any of them as you will.

Avoid negative sources people, places and things.

Believe in yourself

Consider things from every angle

Don't give up and don't give in

Enjoy life today. Yesterday is gone and tomorrow may never come

Friends and family are hidden treasures, seek them out and enjoy their riches

Give more than you planned to (except with women early in a relationship)

Hang on to your dreams

Ignore those who try to discourage you

Just do it

Keep trying no matter how hard it seems, it will get easier (except with women)

Love yourself first and most

Make it happen

Never lie, cheat or steal. Always strike a fair deal (except in business and women - lol)

Open your eyes and see things as they really are

Practice makes perfect

Qitters never win and winners never quit

Read, study and learn about everything important in your life

Stop procrastinating

Take control of your own destiny

Understand yourself in order to better understand others

Visualize it

Want it more than anything

Xcellerate your efforts

You are unique and nothing can replace you

Zero in on your target and go for it!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HAHAHAHAA...but that's like freakin, 26 letters!!!

Great idea though, post it up everywhere and internalize it. You'll be a better person afterwards.

-Damian
 

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I'm impressed you came up with something for X.
Nice post
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by tmpgstx

Keep trying no matter how hard it seems, it will get easier (except with women)

Originally posted by tmpgstx

Ignore those who try to discourage you
These contradicts eachother. It WILL get easier with women aswell, so I will ignore you for discouraging me...

:p
 

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lol, well you could look at like this with women ..

If you do K
Keep trying no matter how hard it seems, it will get easier (except with women)

Where women are concerned, you're ultimately doing I and K
Ignoring her because she IS discouraging you (and thus no longer trying harder)

It's meant to apply to life in general and not exclusively to women.

I thought i'd share as its helped me some and gets your day off to a good start - sets the tempo
 

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Gotcha :)

Was a good post, just thought I'd give you a hard time about it ;)
 

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Originally posted by Dr Box
I'm impressed you came up with something for X.
lol me too, nice post man

*EDIT* I tried to put it on microsoft word and it is just over 1 page damn I guess ill have to make it smaller
 
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bump this is an awesome list i'm definately gonna print it :D maybe with colors so it'll look nice, i think everyone should read this at the start of their day :) gj!.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Good stuff but....
tmpgstx said:
Avoid negative sources people, places and things.
What if you enjoy hanging out in this forum? :p
 
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