"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Highlight, copy > paste and print the ABCs below. Use large font and put in on your door! Elaborate on any of them as you will.

Avoid negative sources people, places and things.

Believe in yourself

Consider things from every angle

Don't give up and don't give in

Enjoy life today. Yesterday is gone and tomorrow may never come

Friends and family are hidden treasures, seek them out and enjoy their riches

Give more than you planned to (except with women early in a relationship)

Hang on to your dreams

Ignore those who try to discourage you

Just do it

Keep trying no matter how hard it seems, it will get easier (except with women)

Love yourself first and most

Make it happen

Never lie, cheat or steal. Always strike a fair deal (except in business and women - lol)

Open your eyes and see things as they really are

Practice makes perfect

Qitters never win and winners never quit

Read, study and learn about everything important in your life

Stop procrastinating

Take control of your own destiny

Understand yourself in order to better understand others

Visualize it

Want it more than anything

Xcellerate your efforts

You are unique and nothing can replace you

Zero in on your target and go for it!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HAHAHAHAA...but that's like freakin, 26 letters!!!

Great idea though, post it up everywhere and internalize it. You'll be a better person afterwards.

-Damian
 
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I'm impressed you came up with something for X.
Nice post
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by tmpgstx

Keep trying no matter how hard it seems, it will get easier (except with women)
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Originally posted by tmpgstx

Ignore those who try to discourage you
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These contradicts eachother. It WILL get easier with women aswell, so I will ignore you for discouraging me...

:p
 
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lol, well you could look at like this with women ..

If you do K
Keep trying no matter how hard it seems, it will get easier (except with women)

Where women are concerned, you're ultimately doing I and K
Ignoring her because she IS discouraging you (and thus no longer trying harder)

It's meant to apply to life in general and not exclusively to women.

I thought i'd share as its helped me some and gets your day off to a good start - sets the tempo
 
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Gotcha :)

Was a good post, just thought I'd give you a hard time about it ;)
 
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Originally posted by Dr Box
I'm impressed you came up with something for X.
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lol me too, nice post man

*EDIT* I tried to put it on microsoft word and it is just over 1 page damn I guess ill have to make it smaller
 
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bump this is an awesome list i'm definately gonna print it :D maybe with colors so it'll look nice, i think everyone should read this at the start of their day :) gj!.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good stuff but....
tmpgstx said:
Avoid negative sources people, places and things.
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What if you enjoy hanging out in this forum? :p
 
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