"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Know this'll probably be deleted, but trolling should be a bannable offense.

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Really dude. I hate people who go into perfectly good topics,troll in them and get away with it. Trolls come on here, hating on the guys who are actually going out, while they sit on their keyboards and troll topics. And in the end, I don't even think they deserve a warning, I think they should be banned instantly. This should be a forum for people who want to become DJ's and ACTUALLY go out, not a forum for a bunch of losers who sit on their keyboards all day. I bet if these dudes knew trolling = instant ban, they wouldn't be walking around these forums talking so much crap.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ElStud said:
This should be a forum for people who want to become DJ's and ACTUALLY go out, not a forum for a bunch of losers who sit on their keyboards all day. I bet if these dudes knew trolling = instant ban, they wouldn't be walking around these forums talking so much crap.
Being an internet forum, you don't actually know who does and who does not go out. You can guess, and be right most of the time, but there is no physical proof.


So how would you go policing such a thing?




Exactly.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
Being an internet forum, you don't actually know who does and who does not go out. You can guess, and be right most of the time, but there is no physical proof.


So how would you go policing such a thing?




Exactly.
Yeah, but overall the forum needs more positivity. There are people on this forum, who just straight hate. Like for no reason at all, they come into your FR and hate. One example is this MikeYikes do saying something like "Blah blah we might see the worlds first restraining order close lol guyz!".

I mean, yeah, it got deleted, but what could've been the point of that post other than hating? I have no clue. Then there are people who are just serious trolls in the definition of the word. As in, they make one word long post that have no use in a topic or they'll make a post that has zero to do with the topic.
 

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As in, they make one word long post that have no use in a topic or they'll make a post that has zero to do with the topic.
Happens in the outside world too. People talk about **** they don't know all the time. Heard from a friend of a friend, saw it on the news, or just want to fit in and pretend. This can't be prevented.

We could have a BS meter on everybody's posts. Community rating.:D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hating has everything to do with what is happening in the world today. It has everything to do with Agenda 21 and how most of you are targeted for extermination by 2012. Hate is nurture, not nature. Hate is taught to us.

By HEY. That's politics, and I can't talk about it. AND some haters would say I'm a troll for talking about politics here.

Whatever. I know I'm ready, and I know I'm responsible for getting ready close to 6,000 people.
 

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Yeah, what can you do. This reminds of a thread monthes ago. Now this assh*le named Obliteraga, who had ZERO approaches decided to make a thread called "FR: Elstud style" and guess what it was a hit, despite the fact that Obliteraga was a KBJ and I actually went out, his attempt at trolling was so sucessful it got stickied. Yes, stickied. This is why I fear for the forum, the day the mods forget the true meaning of the forum and see it as such a joke that they'd sticky a thread like that.

Just a sign of how easy it is for KBJ's and trolls to get away these days and how the problem isn't really taken that seriously. It's also a sign of how KBJ's are praised on the forum and how guys who actually go out are hated unless they do some super good approach.
 

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ElStud said:
I bet if these dudes knew trolling = instant ban, they wouldn't be walking around these forums talking so much crap.
I wonder if that would stop you from trolling then?
 

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Funnily enough, if there were no KJs, this board would likely not exist. We don't ban chimps and AFCs because becoming a Dj is a process and castigating someone who is inexperienced and sucks is just wrong.

Generally the ones who refuse to learn and improve get banned, sure we could be more strict and less lenient, but I'd rather have each member police themselves.

You can always use the Report post function, those who do are usually successful in getting what they want.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MikeYikes122 said:
I wonder if that would stop you from trolling then?
Haha, don't be foolish. And are you obsessed with Steve Urkel or something? If so you might want to check that out man. But anyway that has nothing to do with me. Call me a troll, call me whatever you like, but at the end of the day I have several FR's and at the end of the day I still approach daily which is more than can be said for you. Infact I probably have hundreds of approaches I haven't even recorded onto this site just for the fact that generally when I do a lot of approaches, I can't remember every single one of them.
 
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