"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Know That You Can

stuartSan

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I firmly believe that anyone can handle anyone else.. let it be a movie star.. or a little h00ker down the street.

A lot of people doubt the fact that they could be going out with supermodels and stuff.. because they KNOW it. They KNOW the supermodels have a great life.. and have a lot of connections.. and those normal citizens KNOW that they're just normal. Its all in the mind. You can't just go up to someone with a great position in the community thinking to yourself "I'm confident.. I'm confident" and expect to pull things off. Thats thinking. You don't think.. you have to KNOW.

Why get intimidated by 8-10 chicks when they only know how to laze at home calling up hunks? You KNOW you have a better life than them.. and they will be lucky if they ever have a chance to talk to you. Problem is.. people these days think they're confident enough to do anything they want to any chick, and in the end.. they screw everything up.

Those guys with the chicks KNOW that they're superior. Thats why you don't see them fumbling for words when they see beautiful women. If you're having trouble with this.. pick up some sports.. get a musical instrument.. get a job. Study. Be someone useful in life. Have a hobby. After achieving all these.. you KNOW your life is meaningful.. and girls/women won't mean anything to you anymore. They will have to be the ones chasing you.. because you KNOW you can get any chick you want with the snap of your fingers, at the status you are in.

So don't just think confident.. KNOW that you are the best.. never put up with any bu11sh1t.. respect yourself. That way you can succeed in every way in life. Good luck.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ

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bump haha I got to it before Chalenge Guy =)

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"Please remember to use the "SEARCH" function in this forum on the topic you have questions about before asking, because it most likely has been answered already! Thank- you"

People who have stolen my signature...

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I encourage you all to steal the signature that I stole so I can add you to the list of theives. Thank-you
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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