"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Know any hardcore way to do crunches?

nvictor

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It's the summer again. I need to burn out the fat and get my neat abs back. I do the basic lying-down-on-the-floor-crunches. But I need suggestions.

The way I'm doing it, I don't train my external intercostal muscles (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/External_intercostal_membrane). After each session I see my 6 packs swell up a little bit, but nothing happens under my arms...

I saw on a website that any kind of twisting during the crunches will do, but it doesn't work :) Do you know of anything hardcore?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Abs are only visible with a low body fat.
If you have a spare tire no amount of 'hardcore' crunches will show your abs... assuming that crunches do something in the first place.

I will suggest you learn how to use an Ergometer machine if you have one at the gym. It will work your abs as well as most of your body.
 

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crunches don't burn fat. drink 1/2 glass of OJ and go for a 5 k run before every breakfast, then crunch-throw a 10kg medicine ball to a partner from a lying roman chair for 10 minutes. that's hardcore.
 

nvictor

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Well, these are not really the kind of replies I wanted. But thanks anyway. I shouldn't have mentioned fat...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I-tallionStallion

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Nothing showy about this but do Weighted decline situps. Try it with as much weight as you can handle for 2x10-12
 

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i have basically given you the fastest way to defined abs known to man. repent!
#2: hang from overhead bar , feet together, bring your knees up to your left armpit/right/left and do 4 sets of 15.
but don't forget teh medicine ball is l33t and is pwn your azz.
 

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Doing crunches with a rope on a pulley is basically a crunch that you can add weight and progress on.
 

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doing crunches underwater without breathing is totally hardcore, even more hardcore than concentration curls and 500-lb. quarter-squats.

if you don't get the answers you want, keep asking, i'm sure you'll eventually find someone to tell you exactly what you want to hear!
 

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Throttle said:
if you don't get the answers you want, keep asking, i'm sure you'll eventually find someone to tell you exactly what you want to hear!
i would have said that, but i think he said the 'kind of' answers he was looking for.. presumably he means hardcore ones :box: :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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