"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Knock off pedestal

Doe Boii

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Aight, so there's this one chick im tryina to get with and fvck, but she is on a pedestal so high, you could see her (Nice) ass. Anyway, she thinks she is just so hot, and I keep with the neg-hits bringing her down off little by little, but mostly everytime we talk it's on the phone, i see her occasionally, but when we're on the phone she TALKS and TALKS. How can I knock her off her pedestal for good, have shorter convo's, and ultimately fvck?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Someone Much cooler

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me personally I wouldn't press her at all. Insults can be the biggest compliments if said enough...aka even if your giving her negative attention your still giving her attention. I would fall back and let her come to(or on) you.

keep calling her, take 2 steps foward and then wait for her to make a ove then you don't respond and make her make another move, then you move foward half a step. If shes concientrating all of her energy or you then she can't mack anothe guy and you don't have to worry about the competition. Just occupy her(no pun intended)
 

Jay Jay

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On the phone? c&f.

If she talks alot she's bound to say a lot of dumb ****... everyone who talks alot says dumb ****, just read some of my posts!

So when she says dumb **** tease her about it. Don't be mean, just friendly teasing.

JJ
 
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