"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Knock off pedestal

Doe Boii

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Aight, so there's this one chick im tryina to get with and fvck, but she is on a pedestal so high, you could see her (Nice) ass. Anyway, she thinks she is just so hot, and I keep with the neg-hits bringing her down off little by little, but mostly everytime we talk it's on the phone, i see her occasionally, but when we're on the phone she TALKS and TALKS. How can I knock her off her pedestal for good, have shorter convo's, and ultimately fvck?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Someone Much cooler

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me personally I wouldn't press her at all. Insults can be the biggest compliments if said enough...aka even if your giving her negative attention your still giving her attention. I would fall back and let her come to(or on) you.

keep calling her, take 2 steps foward and then wait for her to make a ove then you don't respond and make her make another move, then you move foward half a step. If shes concientrating all of her energy or you then she can't mack anothe guy and you don't have to worry about the competition. Just occupy her(no pun intended)
 

Jay Jay

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On the phone? c&f.

If she talks alot she's bound to say a lot of dumb ****... everyone who talks alot says dumb ****, just read some of my posts!

So when she says dumb **** tease her about it. Don't be mean, just friendly teasing.

JJ
 
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