"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Knock chicks off their pedestal.

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Why would you need to "knock chicks off their pedestal" unless you put them on a pedestal to begin with basically admitting you are lower value?

If some chick herself is on her high horse there's also no need to get involved with her or try to knock her off it unless you can't restrain yourself from her to try and bring her down to your level so you can feel comfy and hopefully have her accept you need of her approval.

You neither place chicks on a pedestal to begin with If you are truly high value yourself or you don't bother with chicks that think they're "better" than you. Otherwise all you are doing is trying to mask your own insecurities by trying to knock those down who you already believe are "above" you in order to bring yourself up while deluding yourselves you aren't doing just that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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