"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well when I was in high school I remember making out, we would just sit there and make out for like 20 minutes or some ridiculous time like that, anyway

now I like to make out for like 10 seconds, slowly move my head away look into her eyes and talk a little bit maybe, and then start kissing again.

but still i see adults, and kids in my college sitting down on chairs making out for like a constant 20 minutes or even longer.

Can anyone tell me whatsup with this? do i have kissing issues or do they?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Personal preference.

I personally only do it in short spurts because it's not my idea of fun. I do it this way because it's also teasing the girl. Short doses, keeps them calling.

But don't stop altogether, it makes the girl feel loved.
 

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I can't make out for more than 10 minutes. After 10 minutes my hands start wondering around. :D
 

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My hands are actually already wondering BEFORE the kissing, that's how I personally get em horny. But I know what your saying. I hate using tongue. All that saliva, eeeeeeeew.
 

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Originally posted by Bloke
My hands are actually already wondering BEFORE the kissing, that's how I personally get em horny. But I know what your saying. I hate using tongue. All that saliva, eeeeeeeew.
Oh don't get me wrong. I love kissing but I need something else at the same time. I can't sit there for 20 minutes just kissing.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok sweet atleast i know im not the only 1, i see tons of people just SIT there for madd long just making out its like WTF?
 
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