"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hunterchilla

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well when I was in high school I remember making out, we would just sit there and make out for like 20 minutes or some ridiculous time like that, anyway

now I like to make out for like 10 seconds, slowly move my head away look into her eyes and talk a little bit maybe, and then start kissing again.

but still i see adults, and kids in my college sitting down on chairs making out for like a constant 20 minutes or even longer.

Can anyone tell me whatsup with this? do i have kissing issues or do they?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Personal preference.

I personally only do it in short spurts because it's not my idea of fun. I do it this way because it's also teasing the girl. Short doses, keeps them calling.

But don't stop altogether, it makes the girl feel loved.
 

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I can't make out for more than 10 minutes. After 10 minutes my hands start wondering around. :D
 

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My hands are actually already wondering BEFORE the kissing, that's how I personally get em horny. But I know what your saying. I hate using tongue. All that saliva, eeeeeeeew.
 

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Originally posted by Bloke
My hands are actually already wondering BEFORE the kissing, that's how I personally get em horny. But I know what your saying. I hate using tongue. All that saliva, eeeeeeeew.
Oh don't get me wrong. I love kissing but I need something else at the same time. I can't sit there for 20 minutes just kissing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok sweet atleast i know im not the only 1, i see tons of people just SIT there for madd long just making out its like WTF?
 
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