well me and my girlfriend kissed but i think i messed up, cause it was my first kiss and it wasn't her first...and i think i kinda mssed up.. but i went for seconds and thirds and i did a little better (does the fact that we kissed for a second and third time mean that she didn't think it was bad?)..or did i just msess up the whole thing with a bad first kiss ....cause she doesn't know that i haven't kissed a girl before...so what should i do. any advice?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
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Alpha_Animal
Don Juan
It is quite hard to say from what you have written but it cant have been all that bad if you kissed for a second and third time. You've got your first kiss out of the way anyway
first time doing something is always the hardest in my opinion. Try to give a few more specifics and maybe us guys can tell you more such as what was she acting like before and after the kiss? Was there any difference in the way she acted? I personally think it is nothing to worry about though. If youre a really bad kisser shell try to get out of kissing you.
Good luck.
first time doing something is always the hardest in my opinion. Try to give a few more specifics and maybe us guys can tell you more such as what was she acting like before and after the kiss? Was there any difference in the way she acted? I personally think it is nothing to worry about though. If youre a really bad kisser shell try to get out of kissing you.Good luck.
AIR-PILOT
Don Juan
A lot of tips on main page about this...
Check it out.
Check it out.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lol, well we were walking and holding hands so i just looked at her and went in i tried to remember to open my lips a little bit but since it was my first i messed up...but she didn't seem any different after or anything....so i'm guessing everythings ok right?....and what main page are you talking about
Nexxus
Senior Don Juan
I like kissing, first time I kissed was by playing spin the bottle!
anyways when you kiss just go in and "massage her tongue" don't slurp it all round
anyways when you kiss just go in and "massage her tongue" don't slurp it all round
AdrenalynJunkee
Don Juan
Also, the less noise you make, the better. I went to the movies with this girl I knew, first time actually hanging out with her. We were sitting top row, it went her friend Duke, some chick, some chick, her, me. I'll skip the flirting and kino'ing stuff and get right to the point. Duke and his gf started going at it, VERY loudly I might add. Both the girl I was with and the friend, plus his GF, thought that was rather annoying. Anyways, when the girl (Morgan) and I started going at it, I ended up getting compliments on the fact that I was quiet. They notice things like that.
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
Damn, my girlfriend is quite loud when she kisses me and I find it pretty annoying. I mean, there are places where I don't care how loud she wants to be (like the bedroom), but at least have some respect for the people around us when we're in public.
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Dont sweat it man, just learn, you'll get better. She'll prolly show you the ropes, etc. Pretty soon it will just get natural.
But heres a few tips to sweap her off her feet while making out to show her you're overflowing with manhood and testosterone.
1. The clothes play - while you're making out, grab the back of her shirt and tug on it, sorta squeeze it.
2. Dry humping - while youre making out, suddenly get in a dominate position and start humping her as if you're having sex but youre clothes are on. Dont hump her leg, hump her vagina.
3. Keep your hands moving - Nothing makes a kiss boring more than idle hands. Keep your hands moving - move them around her back, in her hair, across her chest, etc.
But heres a few tips to sweap her off her feet while making out to show her you're overflowing with manhood and testosterone.
1. The clothes play - while you're making out, grab the back of her shirt and tug on it, sorta squeeze it.
2. Dry humping - while youre making out, suddenly get in a dominate position and start humping her as if you're having sex but youre clothes are on. Dont hump her leg, hump her vagina.
3. Keep your hands moving - Nothing makes a kiss boring more than idle hands. Keep your hands moving - move them around her back, in her hair, across her chest, etc.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mtllcanpssy
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Hey man i was in the exact same situation as you! But now the girl is telling like everyone at her school, (we go to different schools) how good i am at kissing. I was worried about it like you, so this just proves not to worry about it. AS far as kissing goes, just move your hands pretty much as much as you can (but now too much). Try to always have one hands in her hair (running through it or whatever) and have the other hand on her back or her ass (you're the king of her, shes yours, you can do whatever you want to her, run your hands over your property bro!) Also if she kissed you again thats a good thing! Just dont worry about it too much. If anything I guess if ya'll are alone somewhere, just be like, if there's anything you don't like about my kissing just show me how you like (or whatever!) Good Luck bro and dont worry about anything too much!
awesome mtllcanpssy.....yea, adn what i've noticed is that everytime i try to kiss her now she slips me tounge every single time. which isn't a bad thing
but like goodbye kisses i just dont dig the whole tounge thing..is it that shes a bad kisser, or she just really likes the frenching
but like goodbye kisses i just dont dig the whole tounge thing..is it that shes a bad kisser, or she just really likes the frenching