well me and my girlfriend kissed but i think i messed up, cause it was my first kiss and it wasn't her first...and i think i kinda mssed up.. but i went for seconds and thirds and i did a little better (does the fact that we kissed for a second and third time mean that she didn't think it was bad?)..or did i just msess up the whole thing with a bad first kiss ....cause she doesn't know that i haven't kissed a girl before...so what should i do. any advice?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
kissing...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Alpha_Animal
Don Juan
It is quite hard to say from what you have written but it cant have been all that bad if you kissed for a second and third time. You've got your first kiss out of the way anyway
first time doing something is always the hardest in my opinion. Try to give a few more specifics and maybe us guys can tell you more such as what was she acting like before and after the kiss? Was there any difference in the way she acted? I personally think it is nothing to worry about though. If youre a really bad kisser shell try to get out of kissing you.
Good luck.
first time doing something is always the hardest in my opinion. Try to give a few more specifics and maybe us guys can tell you more such as what was she acting like before and after the kiss? Was there any difference in the way she acted? I personally think it is nothing to worry about though. If youre a really bad kisser shell try to get out of kissing you.Good luck.
AIR-PILOT
Don Juan
A lot of tips on main page about this...
Check it out.
Check it out.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lol, well we were walking and holding hands so i just looked at her and went in i tried to remember to open my lips a little bit but since it was my first i messed up...but she didn't seem any different after or anything....so i'm guessing everythings ok right?....and what main page are you talking about
Nexxus
Senior Don Juan
I like kissing, first time I kissed was by playing spin the bottle!
anyways when you kiss just go in and "massage her tongue" don't slurp it all round
anyways when you kiss just go in and "massage her tongue" don't slurp it all round
AdrenalynJunkee
Don Juan
Also, the less noise you make, the better. I went to the movies with this girl I knew, first time actually hanging out with her. We were sitting top row, it went her friend Duke, some chick, some chick, her, me. I'll skip the flirting and kino'ing stuff and get right to the point. Duke and his gf started going at it, VERY loudly I might add. Both the girl I was with and the friend, plus his GF, thought that was rather annoying. Anyways, when the girl (Morgan) and I started going at it, I ended up getting compliments on the fact that I was quiet. They notice things like that.
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
Damn, my girlfriend is quite loud when she kisses me and I find it pretty annoying. I mean, there are places where I don't care how loud she wants to be (like the bedroom), but at least have some respect for the people around us when we're in public.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dont sweat it man, just learn, you'll get better. She'll prolly show you the ropes, etc. Pretty soon it will just get natural.
But heres a few tips to sweap her off her feet while making out to show her you're overflowing with manhood and testosterone.
1. The clothes play - while you're making out, grab the back of her shirt and tug on it, sorta squeeze it.
2. Dry humping - while youre making out, suddenly get in a dominate position and start humping her as if you're having sex but youre clothes are on. Dont hump her leg, hump her vagina.
3. Keep your hands moving - Nothing makes a kiss boring more than idle hands. Keep your hands moving - move them around her back, in her hair, across her chest, etc.
But heres a few tips to sweap her off her feet while making out to show her you're overflowing with manhood and testosterone.
1. The clothes play - while you're making out, grab the back of her shirt and tug on it, sorta squeeze it.
2. Dry humping - while youre making out, suddenly get in a dominate position and start humping her as if you're having sex but youre clothes are on. Dont hump her leg, hump her vagina.
3. Keep your hands moving - Nothing makes a kiss boring more than idle hands. Keep your hands moving - move them around her back, in her hair, across her chest, etc.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
mtllcanpssy
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Hey man i was in the exact same situation as you! But now the girl is telling like everyone at her school, (we go to different schools) how good i am at kissing. I was worried about it like you, so this just proves not to worry about it. AS far as kissing goes, just move your hands pretty much as much as you can (but now too much). Try to always have one hands in her hair (running through it or whatever) and have the other hand on her back or her ass (you're the king of her, shes yours, you can do whatever you want to her, run your hands over your property bro!) Also if she kissed you again thats a good thing! Just dont worry about it too much. If anything I guess if ya'll are alone somewhere, just be like, if there's anything you don't like about my kissing just show me how you like (or whatever!) Good Luck bro and dont worry about anything too much!
awesome mtllcanpssy.....yea, adn what i've noticed is that everytime i try to kiss her now she slips me tounge every single time. which isn't a bad thing
but like goodbye kisses i just dont dig the whole tounge thing..is it that shes a bad kisser, or she just really likes the frenching
but like goodbye kisses i just dont dig the whole tounge thing..is it that shes a bad kisser, or she just really likes the frenching