How can I get better at kissing. Like I always have the oppturnity to kiss close but I'm scared because I dont think I"m a very good kisser. Like I've kissed closed one girl in high school but she kinda kissed closed me and it was very short. So how exactly does one like french kiss. Damn I think I've finally reach my afc low
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Docs
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You read up a little bit so you're familar about it, but really...let it develop,.
lol nvm I read it wrong first. oops.
lol read about wtf?
Wtf do you when your making out just smash your lips there against her wondering when to "french kiss" lol wtf is wrong with you guys? Your 18, wtf else have you been doing the last couple of years?
Anyway yeah as for advice, not too much tounge and keep it interesting, it gets better with exp. Keep your hands moving too, and no not down there too much yet that is.
lol read about wtf?
Wtf do you when your making out just smash your lips there against her wondering when to "french kiss" lol wtf is wrong with you guys? Your 18, wtf else have you been doing the last couple of years?
Anyway yeah as for advice, not too much tounge and keep it interesting, it gets better with exp. Keep your hands moving too, and no not down there too much yet that is.
tryin 2 play
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Bvbidd is mad for some reason...
anyway dude just relax, the more tense you are the worse it will be.
follow her lead while your kissing because people ususally kiss someone the way they want to be kissed. she goes slow so your slow, shes fast so you are.
with time, you will develop your own "style" or whatever, basically you will be comfortable with it, and then you can lead when it omes to kising. its really easy dude just relax.
anyway dude just relax, the more tense you are the worse it will be.
follow her lead while your kissing because people ususally kiss someone the way they want to be kissed. she goes slow so your slow, shes fast so you are.
with time, you will develop your own "style" or whatever, basically you will be comfortable with it, and then you can lead when it omes to kising. its really easy dude just relax.
donjuanjovi
Senior Don Juan
You're thinking about it too hard. It's something you just do. :woo:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ValleyDJing
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Bvbidd said:Sometimes it's fun to flame.
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Finally someone admits it:crackup:
amoka
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I was watching a show the other day when a woman asked the same question. Here is the respond the host of the show gave....
Practice kissing on the mirror. That's right. The mirror. Imagine the one in the mirror is the girl. Move closer and closer and closer until your lips touches the mirror.
Another tip that was provided in the show is the door nob. Door handles are the best kissing methods. Try kissing it until you're good at it.
Practice kissing on the mirror. That's right. The mirror. Imagine the one in the mirror is the girl. Move closer and closer and closer until your lips touches the mirror.
Another tip that was provided in the show is the door nob. Door handles are the best kissing methods. Try kissing it until you're good at it.
The_Reaper
Senior Don Juan
Bull, I have a WAY better suggestion - kiss the inside of your wrist. Drop your assumptions and do it NOW. You will be very surprised at how it feels like kissing
I'm just scared of bumping heads or teeth. Or If I try to put my lips on top and she does the same and it just becomes a peck. How should I avoid these situation. Also how do people not get tired of just freaking necking for hours
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
horrible excuse
You kiss her b/c it feels good! Stop thinkng so hard, you're not gonna get any better until you just let go and do it.
I personally like to suck on the lips a little first then start tounging. I usually play w/ their tongue w/ mine.
You kiss her b/c it feels good! Stop thinkng so hard, you're not gonna get any better until you just let go and do it.
I personally like to suck on the lips a little first then start tounging. I usually play w/ their tongue w/ mine.
Docs
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That's why you don't fly in there full tilt, let the situation develop!! I already told you that.DA KID said:
A peck is a short kiss. You can hold it. Don't be a little biatczz about where your lips should be.
Read above, and just plain goddamn do it.
And you don't get tired if you start EXPLORING. Nice and slow.
Ya man... feel it out!
Kissing is an art... make love to her with your mouth.
Let it be fun, passionate... rile her.
Baby kisses, a lick of her lip, deep passionate tongueing... just let it blend, and go w. the flow.
Enjoy the intimacy, and be casanova suave w. the kiss
Don't be afraid to get creative, and go w. the feel.
You'll know whats goober retarded, and whats sexy goodness.
Bottom line... its all pleasure.
So let the good feelings lead you.
You'll find your own style/technique.
Kissing is an art... make love to her with your mouth.
Let it be fun, passionate... rile her.
Baby kisses, a lick of her lip, deep passionate tongueing... just let it blend, and go w. the flow.
Enjoy the intimacy, and be casanova suave w. the kiss
Don't be afraid to get creative, and go w. the feel.
You'll know whats goober retarded, and whats sexy goodness.
Bottom line... its all pleasure.
So let the good feelings lead you.
You'll find your own style/technique.