"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DA KID

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How can I get better at kissing. Like I always have the oppturnity to kiss close but I'm scared because I dont think I"m a very good kisser. Like I've kissed closed one girl in high school but she kinda kissed closed me and it was very short. So how exactly does one like french kiss. Damn I think I've finally reach my afc low
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bvbidd

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lol nvm I read it wrong first. oops.

lol read about wtf?

Wtf do you when your making out just smash your lips there against her wondering when to "french kiss" lol wtf is wrong with you guys? Your 18, wtf else have you been doing the last couple of years?

Anyway yeah as for advice, not too much tounge and keep it interesting, it gets better with exp. Keep your hands moving too, and no not down there too much yet that is. ;)
 

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Bvbidd is mad for some reason...

anyway dude just relax, the more tense you are the worse it will be.
follow her lead while your kissing because people ususally kiss someone the way they want to be kissed. she goes slow so your slow, shes fast so you are.

with time, you will develop your own "style" or whatever, basically you will be comfortable with it, and then you can lead when it omes to kising. its really easy dude just relax.
 

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You're thinking about it too hard. It's something you just do. :woo:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bvbidd

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I'm always mad, man you look at my posts before?

Sometimes it's fun to flame.

lol in all honestly, really yeah just don't worry too much about it.
 

ValleyDJing

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Bvbidd said:
Sometimes it's fun to flame.

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Finally someone admits it:crackup: :up: ...and why the hell did they change me to senior don juan?! I don't wanna be a senior don juan!
 

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I was watching a show the other day when a woman asked the same question. Here is the respond the host of the show gave....
Practice kissing on the mirror. That's right. The mirror. Imagine the one in the mirror is the girl. Move closer and closer and closer until your lips touches the mirror.
Another tip that was provided in the show is the door nob. Door handles are the best kissing methods. Try kissing it until you're good at it.
 

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Bull, I have a WAY better suggestion - kiss the inside of your wrist. Drop your assumptions and do it NOW. You will be very surprised at how it feels like kissing
 

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I'm just scared of bumping heads or teeth. Or If I try to put my lips on top and she does the same and it just becomes a peck. How should I avoid these situation. Also how do people not get tired of just freaking necking for hours
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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horrible excuse

You kiss her b/c it feels good! Stop thinkng so hard, you're not gonna get any better until you just let go and do it.

I personally like to suck on the lips a little first then start tounging. I usually play w/ their tongue w/ mine.
 

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DA KID said:
I'm just scared of bumping heads or teeth.
That's why you don't fly in there full tilt, let the situation develop!! I already told you that.

Or If I try to put my lips on top and she does the same and it just becomes a peck.
A peck is a short kiss. You can hold it. Don't be a little biatczz about where your lips should be.

How should I avoid these situation. Also how do people not get tired of just freaking necking for hours
Read above, and just plain goddamn do it.
And you don't get tired if you start EXPLORING. Nice and slow.
 

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Ya man... feel it out!
Kissing is an art... make love to her with your mouth.
Let it be fun, passionate... rile her.
Baby kisses, a lick of her lip, deep passionate tongueing... just let it blend, and go w. the flow.

Enjoy the intimacy, and be casanova suave w. the kiss
Don't be afraid to get creative, and go w. the feel.
You'll know whats goober retarded, and whats sexy goodness.

Bottom line... its all pleasure.
So let the good feelings lead you.

You'll find your own style/technique.
 
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