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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kissing wit eyes open (Help)

TheOneForce

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Okay , my problem is that when i kiss my girlfriend i have a problem wit keeping my eyes open and she gets creeped out by it (Who wouldn't).This didn't just start i've been doin this for a WHILE now. How would i go about kissing wit my eyes closed and it not feeling weird to me ? Like wut exercise? lol. But seriously what can i do to fix this ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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toddC

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I've NEVER heard of anyone being scared of kissing with their eyes closed lol...
Umm...if I had to suggest something I'd say make out with somethign in the shower or a pillow or some shyt and just close your eyes I guess? lol
 

oakraiderz2

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Holy sh*t man. Just CLOSE your goddamn eyes. Are you afraid of the dark or something?
 

NYC Dude

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Come on man, just close your eyes. There is no exercise, just close them.
 

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*blink*
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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shydude

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Hmm try practicing on a doll. LOL. And dude there is something wrong.. Just close the dam eyes, or she gonna dump u..
 

SynapsyS

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Your eyes can't focus on anything at such close proximity anyway, so why even bother keeping them open? Besides, it's kinda creepy having a big staring face right in your face (literally).

I'm starting to wonder if this is a joke thread.
 

sexy_kuta

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Bloke said:
What confuses me is WHY people close their eyes when kissing ?

I don't
its part of human nature

just like when somebody throws something at u.. your reaction is trying to catch it not duck and cover.

same with when someone makes ur eyes blink by giving a fake punch or a fake slap to the face
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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