"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kissing wit eyes open (Help)

TheOneForce

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Okay , my problem is that when i kiss my girlfriend i have a problem wit keeping my eyes open and she gets creeped out by it (Who wouldn't).This didn't just start i've been doin this for a WHILE now. How would i go about kissing wit my eyes closed and it not feeling weird to me ? Like wut exercise? lol. But seriously what can i do to fix this ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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toddC

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I've NEVER heard of anyone being scared of kissing with their eyes closed lol...
Umm...if I had to suggest something I'd say make out with somethign in the shower or a pillow or some shyt and just close your eyes I guess? lol
 

oakraiderz2

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Holy sh*t man. Just CLOSE your goddamn eyes. Are you afraid of the dark or something?
 

NYC Dude

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Come on man, just close your eyes. There is no exercise, just close them.
 

Docs

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*blink*
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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shydude

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Hmm try practicing on a doll. LOL. And dude there is something wrong.. Just close the dam eyes, or she gonna dump u..
 

SynapsyS

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Your eyes can't focus on anything at such close proximity anyway, so why even bother keeping them open? Besides, it's kinda creepy having a big staring face right in your face (literally).

I'm starting to wonder if this is a joke thread.
 

sexy_kuta

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Bloke said:
What confuses me is WHY people close their eyes when kissing ?

I don't
its part of human nature

just like when somebody throws something at u.. your reaction is trying to catch it not duck and cover.

same with when someone makes ur eyes blink by giving a fake punch or a fake slap to the face
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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