"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kissing tips

PooMan

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Anyone got any great kissing tips? I know nothing about kissing and really could do with some help! Never kissed a gal and im staying at a gals with her 3 mates tomorrow night, if things lead to kissing i wanna make sure i know what im doing, any help?

ta

p.s i did a search and about 230pages came up so while im going through them i thought i would ask if anyone else has any good ones?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kitsune

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Hunchback

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I do whatever the girls doing to me. This does become a problem when the girls doesn't know what the **** she's doing.

Sometimes it's like "what the **** is this ****, are you trying to eat my ****ing tongue?"

Oh and always, always, always be the first one to break the kiss off. It's a little thing but it keeps the girl wanting I guess.
 

Black_Italian

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First kiss = Sloe gentle not much tounge and make good use of ur hands (rub her neck and run your hand through her hair)

Ninja out
 

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Kitsune, good job on putting that together!

They were all good thecniques which I knew, but its always good to have the fresh in your mind again.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Carnegie

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Great tips on kissing, hopefully I can apply this soon..Ive never kissed a girl before..
 
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