"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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dante82

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Ok it seems that I am a little insecure about kissing. There is this girl that I am starting to like, and she is all on me we talk fine we laugh and shes all like "ooh thats a pretty chain" (i have a chain) and I took it off for her and let her see it and she wound up taking it home yada yada. She sits in the back and i sit in the front, and she came all the way to the front to talk to me and my boy cause the back was "boring" even though there are guys back there.(do you think shes liking me?
Anyway I think shes starting to like me a lot, and i think i might get her to chill this coming weekend and maybe rent a movie and hang around the house. Back to the kissing. I have kissed girls before only a few times, never made out, and it was only for like two seconds. I felt that i wasnt doing a good job befor and i dont want to screw up this chick on account of a bad kiss, so do you guys have any tips to making out/kissing? Kinda like things to do/not to do and anything that will make this easier for me? Thank You alot
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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shes all like "ooh thats a pretty chain" (i have a chain) and I took it off for her and let her see it and she wound up taking it home yada yada.
Erm... She never gave it back did she?

If she didn't.... You just found yourself a thief.
 

bud_2005

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Yeah kissing is the least thing you should be worried about. GO GET YOUR CHAIN BACK and then report her to the police.
 

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lol na..let her keep the chain for a lil bit...excuse to go over to her house to "get your chain back"...
 

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but about the kissing...recommendation..go to google.com and just type kissing techniques...theres a lot of junk sayin "just relax" blah blah blah..but ther are some sights out there that give good advice..and some good games to play if u dont wanna just kiss her out of the blue but add some fun to it if u get me..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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alright man. first thing you need to do is relax. gettin a piece is easy and its a natural gift humans have. you already got the skills you just have to put it into action. If you see that you have an opportunity and you want to take it, take your hand and lightly stroke her face and then brush her hair. if she's cool with this slowly move in. start small and work your way up. be slow and be gentle. dont force anything. good luck
 

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Originally posted by tactic
Erm... She never gave it back did she?

If she didn't.... You just found yourself a thief.
Hehe, youre a funny one.

Anyway, just dont worry about it. The first time i made out i was told that i was a really good kisser. Just dont sweat it too much.
 

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OK about this chain thing, she is on my bus stop and i let her have it. I could always go to her house and get it, its not like she stole it. I just though she might be reminded of me dont you think?
 

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Originally posted by dante82
She sits in the back and i sit in the front, and she came all the way to the front to talk to me and my boy cause the back was "boring" ...
Originally posted by dante82
do you think shes liking me?
Originally posted by dante82
Anyway I think shes starting to like me a lot, ...
Originally posted by dante82
btw do you think she likes me.?
I'm lost.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stop being so insecure about it all, whats the worst that could happen, nothing. So just go with it and if your **** kisser, praxticce maeks perfect.
 

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Originally posted by dante82
how am i spossed to practice
get a model of a human head from your school's science lab and just kiss it to your heart's content.
 

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By kissing this girl, then the next one that you are dubious about and then the next one, until you never give a damn about how good a pull you are.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Luscious

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Odds are she hasn't kissed too many guys either, man.

And if she has, well that's your little situation.

BUT ANYHOW...you're probably both novices at kissing. So learn together, it'll be fun.
 
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