"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dante82

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Ok it seems that I am a little insecure about kissing. There is this girl that I am starting to like, and she is all on me we talk fine we laugh and shes all like "ooh thats a pretty chain" (i have a chain) and I took it off for her and let her see it and she wound up taking it home yada yada. She sits in the back and i sit in the front, and she came all the way to the front to talk to me and my boy cause the back was "boring" even though there are guys back there.(do you think shes liking me?
Anyway I think shes starting to like me a lot, and i think i might get her to chill this coming weekend and maybe rent a movie and hang around the house. Back to the kissing. I have kissed girls before only a few times, never made out, and it was only for like two seconds. I felt that i wasnt doing a good job befor and i dont want to screw up this chick on account of a bad kiss, so do you guys have any tips to making out/kissing? Kinda like things to do/not to do and anything that will make this easier for me? Thank You alot
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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shes all like "ooh thats a pretty chain" (i have a chain) and I took it off for her and let her see it and she wound up taking it home yada yada.
Erm... She never gave it back did she?

If she didn't.... You just found yourself a thief.
 

bud_2005

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Yeah kissing is the least thing you should be worried about. GO GET YOUR CHAIN BACK and then report her to the police.
 

MidwestFreek

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lol na..let her keep the chain for a lil bit...excuse to go over to her house to "get your chain back"...
 

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but about the kissing...recommendation..go to google.com and just type kissing techniques...theres a lot of junk sayin "just relax" blah blah blah..but ther are some sights out there that give good advice..and some good games to play if u dont wanna just kiss her out of the blue but add some fun to it if u get me..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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alright man. first thing you need to do is relax. gettin a piece is easy and its a natural gift humans have. you already got the skills you just have to put it into action. If you see that you have an opportunity and you want to take it, take your hand and lightly stroke her face and then brush her hair. if she's cool with this slowly move in. start small and work your way up. be slow and be gentle. dont force anything. good luck
 

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Originally posted by tactic
Erm... She never gave it back did she?

If she didn't.... You just found yourself a thief.
Hehe, youre a funny one.

Anyway, just dont worry about it. The first time i made out i was told that i was a really good kisser. Just dont sweat it too much.
 

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OK about this chain thing, she is on my bus stop and i let her have it. I could always go to her house and get it, its not like she stole it. I just though she might be reminded of me dont you think?
 

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Originally posted by dante82
She sits in the back and i sit in the front, and she came all the way to the front to talk to me and my boy cause the back was "boring" ...
Originally posted by dante82
do you think shes liking me?
Originally posted by dante82
Anyway I think shes starting to like me a lot, ...
Originally posted by dante82
btw do you think she likes me.?
I'm lost.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Stop being so insecure about it all, whats the worst that could happen, nothing. So just go with it and if your **** kisser, praxticce maeks perfect.
 

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Originally posted by dante82
how am i spossed to practice
get a model of a human head from your school's science lab and just kiss it to your heart's content.
 

JSH

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By kissing this girl, then the next one that you are dubious about and then the next one, until you never give a damn about how good a pull you are.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Luscious

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Odds are she hasn't kissed too many guys either, man.

And if she has, well that's your little situation.

BUT ANYHOW...you're probably both novices at kissing. So learn together, it'll be fun.
 
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